The Page of Swords is the card of communication, curiosity, wit, inspiration, and communications. This card depicts a young man standing with his sword pointed up to the sky. Though his sword is pointed in one direction, he is actively looking around in all directions to see what else is happening around him. He looks both determined and defiant.
The Page of Swords reminds us that communication is a big part of love and life. We are happy when we love talking with our partner. We are excited when we are inspired by new ideas, wit, and humor. The Page of Swords is a reminder that attraction of the mind is just as important as attraction of the physical body.
If you are asking about how your ex feels about reconciling with you, and you draw the Page of Swords, it means that your ex is trying to rationalize all their emotions right now. They are intellectualizing all their emotions and feelings, so much so that it’s almost like they are in denial. They are convincing themselves that they weren’t hurt by your breakup, but that isn’t true. They aren’t allowing themselves to be emotionally vulnerable and are afraid of intimacy.
Page of Swords as reconciliation is a sign of running away from their feelings. They love having deep conversations that will really make them think, however, if you try to talk about emotional issues, they will close up. They don’t want to talk about their feelings and will do everything in their power to avoid heartfelt conversations.
When your ex thinks about reconciliation with you, they feel like they were able to connect with you intellectually. You were able to hold deep conversations with them and were able to excite their mind. You gave them new ideas and they are intrigued by your thought process. However, since your breakup, they haven’t been allowing themselves to feel what happened. They were definitely hurt because they felt very strongly for you, but they aren’t admitting it.
If you’ve recently split up, Page of Swords means that your ex has shut down emotionally. They don’t want to feel the hurt and the pain, so instead, they are trying to intellectualize their emotions. They are giving themselves ‘logical explanations’ for why they weren’t hurt by the split. This is terrible in the long run because they are suppressing their emotions. This will come back to haunt them. Reconciliation isn’t going to happen unless your ex can allow themselves to actually process what they’re feeling. They need to open up emotionally and allow themselves to feel.
If you’ve been in separation for a while, Page of Swords means that your ex is still in denial. They refuse to face their emotions and would rather continue running away from them. They are forcing themselves not to think about you, and if this continues, reconciliation will never come. If you want to make the first move and are tired of waiting, try getting them in a comfortable position where they can talk about their feelings. This will be really tough though, as they would rather talk about anything else but their feelings.
If the two of you are still considering whether or not you should break up, Page of Swords means that an honest and open conversation is long overdue. You guys are a great match intellectually, but you both need to connect emotionally as well if you want this relationship to last. You are probably on the same page about most things, but it’s good to remind your partner that it’s okay to feel things. Let them know that they can open up to you and be vulnerable. Work things out with them because you guys really are a good match. It will be difficult to find someone else that stimulates and excites you like this.
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If you are asking about how your ex feels about reconciling with you, and you draw the Page of Swords reversed, it means that your ex feels like they are always right. They will do whatever it takes to ‘win’ an argument, even if that means hurting or offending the person they are arguing with. They lack a sense of empathy and emotional sensitivity— they are childish. They are always on the defensive, and they are ready to launch into an argument over an innocuous comment.
Page of Swords reversed as reconciliation is a sign of tension. Your dynamic in your previous relationship probably wasn’t a very healthy one as there were always misunderstandings between you two. Your ex had no regard for the details of things and always saw everything in black or white — something was either your fault or theirs, but since they hate ‘losing’, it will always be yours.
When your ex thinks about reconciliation with you, they feel frustrated. When they look back at your relationship, they feel negatively about it. They have almost nothing positive to say about your relationship and will jump at the chance to blame you for your breakup. Your ex has already come up with thousands of different reasons and excuses about why you’re the villain.
If you’ve recently split up, Page of Swords reversed means that your ex is childish. They are not considering your feelings. They will continue to place all the blame on you and will continue to feel negatively toward you. There was a lot of tension in your relationship, even before the breakup, and it shows. It’s hard to tell if they’ve moved on, but due to their childish take on things, they have convinced themselves that they don’t care about you.
If you’ve been in separation for a while, Page of Swords reversed means that it’s time to move on. You deserve someone who doesn’t feel the need to ‘win’ every conversation. Not everything is an argument. You deserve a mature partner who can understand your needs and is willing to talk things out and admit they’re wrong when they need to. Just as a heads up though, your ex will probably only speak negatively about you and your relationship.
If the two of you are still considering whether or not you should break up, Page of Swords reversed means that there’s a lot of tension in the air right now. There are some things that need to be aired out before you guys can move forward. Your partner’s black and white approach to things may be cause for another argument, but try to get them to see your side of things. It’s possible to fix most problems through communicating, so once you can be honest and open with each other, your relationship will right itself. They feel frustrated about the communication but just do your best to diffuse the situation and get your partner to come around.
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For relationships and reconciliation, the Page of Swords represents mental attraction and wit. A good relationship has physical attraction and mental attraction. When you have an inspiring partner who really connects with you on an intellectual level, it is a beauty to behold. The Page of Swords is a reminder of this aspect of love.
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