Ten of Pentacles as Reconciliation (Upright & Reversed) Tarot Card Meaning

The Ten of Pentacles is the card of legacy, family, solid foundations, stability, tradition, and wealth. In this card, an old man is shown surrounded by his family at his wealthy estate. He is surrounded by his children, his grandchildren, and his dogs. Everyone is playing happily and enjoying each other’s company. This legacy is the fruit of everything this man has worked for in his lifetime. 

The Ten of Pentacles reminds us that a strong relationship can build a legacy over time. Eventually, a couple becomes family. Together, they can achieve their goals, whether that is having children or starting a business together. Whatever it is that you want to achieve in life, your relationships with others make your goals meaningful, and you can often do it together. It is no longer about me, but about we.

Upright Ten of Pentacles as Reconciliation

If you are asking about how your ex feels about reconciling with you, and you draw the Ten of Pentacles, it means that your ex believes in your relationship. They see you as a partner that will stay in their lives for a long time. You are basically their family at this point. They can feel such a deep bond between you two that they feel like they can open up to you about anything and just be themselves. 

Ten of Pentacles as reconciliation is a sign of compatibility. You and your ex complement each other in all aspects. You’re able to hold meaningful conversations, you have the same interests, and you’re both good company for the other. Not to mention, family approval is important to them and you definitely passed your ex’s family’s standards. They acknowledge how precious you are, and they know that you are the one for them.

When your ex thinks about reconciliation with you, they feel hopeful. Your ex sees a future with you, even when you’re apart. You have carved out a place in their life and there’s no one else that can fill it but you. They are still committed to you after all this time and are excited to have you back in their lives. Reconciliation is definitely coming soon. 

If you’ve recently split up, Ten of Pentacles means that your ex has realized how much of a mistake it was to let you go. You guys split up, but they can still see you in their future and have decided that they want you back. They’ve realized all your amazing qualities, like your loyalty and commitment to them. They know that when you were together, things were really good. They were definitely happier by your side.

If you’ve been in separation for a while, Ten of Pentacles means that your ex misses you. Their family probably misses you too. You complemented each other so well and you fit right into their family dynamic. You are definitely welcome in their home and your ex wants nothing more than to welcome you back with open arms. They can see all the potential of your relationship and how far you two can go and it greatly excites them. They are definitely ready to pounce and grab any opportunity to win you back.

If the two of you are still considering whether or not you should break up, Ten of Pentacles means that you are their family. You are deeply treasured by your partner. They adore you. Whatever’s going on right now, just work your way through it and know that your partner will never give up on you. Your relationship is in a great position right now and will last through the test of time for sure. You are their family, and family never leaves each other. Additionally, your partner is so enamored by you that engagement is probably just around the corner!

Reversed Ten of Pentacles as Reconciliation

If you are asking about how your ex feels about reconciling with you, and you draw the Ten of Pentacles reversed, it means that your ex doesn’t see a future with you. They are stressing themselves out trying to think about whether or not you’ll fit in with their family, friends, and lifestyle. The emotional connection between you two has been pushed to the back of their mind as they focus on the more material aspects of your relationship. 

Ten of Pentacles reversed as reconciliation is a sign of worry. Your ex is worried about the longevity of your relationship. They have no desire to pursue your relationship once more because they feel that even if you do get back together, it would only be a matter of time before you break up again. While it is normal to think about the future, your ex seems to be obsessing over how well you’d fit into their lifestyle compared to how well you two fit together. 

When your ex thinks about reconciliation with you, they feel discouraged. Outside acceptance is also really important to your ex, and there may have been an instance where a friend or family member of theirs expressed their dislike of you. Negative comments about you and your relationship really impacted their thinking and made them lose faith in your compatibility and capability for a long-term relationship. You deserve better. You deserve someone who will always pick you, no matter what anyone else says.

If you’ve recently split up, Ten of Pentacles reversed means that your ex has been swayed by other people’s opinions. There are external forces that are pulling you two apart and, in this case, they succeeded. It’s also possible that you two got into way too many arguments while together and this only validated their concerns about your compatibility. 

If you’ve been in separation for a while, Ten of Pentacles reversed means that it’ll be really hard to convince your ex to reconcile with you. So far, they think that it’s better off this way. Honestly, it’s also better for you to just move on because this isn’t the type of person that will fight for you. Your ex isn’t paying attention to the emotional aspect of your relationship as the superficial aspects are more important to them.

If the two of you are still considering whether or not you should break up, Ten of Pentacles reversed means that there are some issues in your relationship that you must talk to your partner about. Your partner is having a lot of concerns about your communication and the strength of your relationship. While, sometimes, they can just be obsessing over something unimportant, it’s possible that some of their concerns are valid. Sit down and discuss their concerns together and try to come to a compromise. If you can convince them that everything is alright and that other people’s opinions don’t matter, your relationship can last.

Conclusion

For relationships and reconciliation, the Ten of Pentacles represents abundance, family, and legacy. This card represents the pinnacle of what two people in a solid, healthy relationship can achieve together over time. You can truly build a life, a family, and a legacy with the person that you love. These are things that make life worth living. 

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