Nine of Wands as Intentions (Upright & Reversed) Tarot Card Meaning

The Nine of Wands is the card of resilience, persistence, courage, and boundaries. The card shows an injured man clutching a wand. He looks anxious and weary. He’s already been through a lot, but he is very close to reaching his goal.  

The Nine of Wands reminds us that challenges are a part of life and every relationship. Nothing is perfectly good or perfectly bad. Everything has its own challenges. Our endurance and persistence show the strength of our character. Additionally, this card also reminds us that healthy boundaries are necessary for successful relationships. 

Upright Nine of Wands as Intentions

If you are asking about someone’s intentions towards you, and you draw the Nine of Wands, that means this person intends to protect and support you. This person is likely very loyal and trustworthy, so you can feel safe knowing they have your best interests at heart. Don’t be afraid to be yourself in front of this person as they see beyond your actions. They’ve seen you at your best and worst, and nothing can easily change what you mean to that person. 

The Nine of Wands as intentions means that they have the commitment and great strength of character. This card symbolizes being almost at the end of a journey and feeling utterly exhausted, yet still able to pick up and make that last stand. It may feel like everything is going against the situation, but this card is an affirmation that those efforts will always be worthwhile. That you are the goal it intends to keep and keep fighting until reached.

For singles and those embarking on new relationships, the Nine of Wands is a sign of them intending to put in the hard work required for a successful relationship. This is a time when you’re both likely to be taking your relationship seriously and working towards making things work long-term. This could manifest as countless hours spent crafting witty messages, agonizing over first dates, or simply committing to making things work no matter what. Essentially, it means that this person is serious about their love life and is ready to do whatever it takes to find success.

For existing relationships, the Nine of Wands represents an intention to stand together and fight for what’s important – even when things are tough. There’s a lot of energy going into this relationship, and it’s likely to be successful if both parties continue to put in the effort. This might be a time when you need to put more energy into your relationship to keep it strong. Take some time for yourselves and recommit to each other. The future looks bright!

If you are asking about an ex’s intentions, the Nine of Wands shows that they intend to come back into your life soon. It means that your ex is trying to muster up the courage to face their fears and deal with whatever complicated emotions they still have from the relationship. So it may mean that your ex is ready to talk things through and move forward. This could be good news if you’re still interested in getting back together, but it could also mean more drama and heartache. Proceed with caution and keep your eyes open for any red flags.

In the context of whether or not a relationship is headed for commitment, engagement, or marriage, the Nine of Wands means that this person is making a serious commitment and is planning for a future with you. They may have been through a lot in the past, but they’re not going to let anything stop them from committing to the relationship. You will see it through their actions. They are putting in the work required to make things happen. This is a very positive sign, and it means that things are headed in the right direction!  

Reversed Nine of Wands as Intentions

If you are asking about someone’s intentions towards you, and you draw the Nine of Wands reversed, that means this person intends to hurt or harm you in some way. They may be jealous of a third party or resentful of you. This indicates competition and the need to take down in order to feel better about themselves. Take a step back and re-evaluate their motives before continuing with whatever you have in place.

This can also indicate that someone is feeling overwhelmed or under attack. It may mean that they’ve been through a lot and are feeling exhausted, scared, and vulnerable. This person may have experienced a lot of setbacks and failures in their past relationships. They’re trying not to make the same mistake again, or go through the same path of pain and heartaches.

For singles and those embarking on new relationships, the Nine of Wands reversed is a sign of them intending to put up a shield between themselves and their partner. This can manifest as being overly critical or nitpicky, or as withdrawing emotionally in order to maintain some sense of detachment. This person may be tempted to back out or end things before they’ve even started. However, it’s important to remember that this is usually just a phase and not a true reflection of someone’s feelings. 

For existing relationships, the Nine of Wands reversed represents an intention to end the relationship. This could be for a variety of reasons, but it often stems from feelings of neglect or abuse. It usually suggests that the person is feeling overwhelmed and exhausted from defending their relationship against outside challenges. There may be fears of losing what has already been gained through further obstacles. It’s a time for you and your partner to take a break and regroup.

If you are asking about an ex’s intentions, the Nine of Wands reversed shows that they intend to not be entirely honest about their true motivations. There’s a possibility of pretending to want reconciliation but isn’t really committed to making it work. No sign that they will be willing to make their best effort to make right for their past mistakes. However, they could also simply be seeking closure or trying to get back in touch for other reasons. Still, there is always that shadow of a doubt when it comes to sincerity.  Proceed cautiously if you decide to communicate with them again.

In the context of whether or not a relationship is headed for commitment, engagement, or marriage, the Nine of Wands reversed means that this person’s intentions are not entirely honest. They may be eager to commit or get married, but there’s likely something else going on behind the scenes that they’re not telling you. This could be anything from hidden doubts or reservations about the relationship, to dishonesty about money or past relationships.

If you’re feeling uneasy about someone’s sudden rush into marriage, it might be worth taking a step back and looking at the whole picture before making any big decisions. Trust your intuition – if it doesn’t feel right, then it probably isn’t.

Conclusion

For relationships and feelings, the Nine of Wands represents resilience and boundaries. Both of these qualities are necessary for any successful relationship. Even if they may not lead to the most fun conversations, they are necessary for success. The Nine of Wands reminds us that great relationships are built on the persistence of the every day, not just big ideas or fleeting feelings of desire. 

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