The Four of Cups is the card of apathy, contemplation, disconnection, indifference, and boredom. This card shows a young man deep in reflection and meditation. He is so engrossed in his own thoughts that he doesn’t notice an outstretched arm offering him a cup. Another three cups lie at his feet, but he does not notice them either.
The Four of Cups reminds us that gratitude is a critical element to every successful relationship. Do not be so self-absorbed that you do not see the wonderful opportunities for happiness around you. Do not be so focused on what you do not have that you overlook what you already have. The Four of Cups is a reminder and a warning to be grateful for what we have.
If you are asking about someone’s intentions towards you, and you draw the Four of Cups, that means this person intends to reserve themselves. They intend to avoid their problems and pain by withdrawing from reality. They may be anxious about losing you, but are bored with the relationship. They intend to linger in a state of avoidance. They lack communicative efforts and interest in joy. They do not intend on pursuing the things around them that can easily make them happy.
The Four of Cups as intentions means that they intend to avoid making efforts to find happiness. It is not important for them because they are lost. Their intentions with you lack direction or purpose. They are not sure if they intend to continue the relationship or embrace loneliness. They must intend to change their perspective in order to garner passion. They intend to reserve themselves from you until they figure out what they want. They are disconnected from reality.
For singles and those embarking on new relationships, the Four of Cups is a sign of them intending to shy away from the opportunity. They intend to focus on the things they cannot obtain rather than the opportunity of a relationship that sits in front of them. They focus their intentions toward themselves and do not realize what is outside. They intend to withdraw themselves from personal connections.
For existing relationships, the Four of Cups represents an intention to decrease effort in the relationship. Something has faded in the relationship. Excitement is minimal. Borden and disconnection overcome this person. An internal problem that they must fix frequently causes these intentions, and usually not what you do. Forward communication is a vital intention for both parties in order to preserve the relationship if you draw the Four of Cups.
If you are asking about an ex’s intentions, the Four of Cups shows that they intend to think only of themselves. They are quite selfish at this point in time. They may feel guilty or like a victim after the breakup. They intend to avoid these feelings and create distance from you. They do not intend on getting back together, and it is not a good time either. This is for both of your best interests.
In the context of whether or not a relationship is headed for commitment, engagement, or marriage, the Four of Cups means that this person’s intentions are unpredictable. The Four of Cups is a warning of these intentions. They intend on absorbing in themselves and paying little attention to you. Their intentions are spontaneous and irrational at times. They intend on thinking pessimistically about you and the relationship. You are not ready for commitment, let alone marriage.
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If you are asking about someone’s intentions towards you, and you draw the Four of Cups reversed, that means this person intends to end their withdrawal phase. They intend to think more optimistically. Their romantic interest and excitement has returned. They intend to acknowledge you and the potential romance between you two. They intend to let go of the past and move into a new period of their lives.
The Four of Cups reversed as intentions means that they intend on switching their perspective on life. They intend to focus less on what they do not have, and more on what they do have. This includes you. They realize that their period of withdrawal was selfish. They intend on making it up to you. They intend to move forward from their past disconnection and form a new, passionate connection with you.
For singles and those embarking on new relationships, the Four of Cups reversed is a sign of them intending to bring about new beginnings. They intend to fully focus on new interests and the future. This means a new relationship is their top desire. They intend to start something new, and if they are in contact with you, you may be their focus. The reversed Four of Cups is a great indication for singles and new relationships.
For existing relationships, the Four of Cups reversed represents an intention to begin a fresh cycle of the relationship. Everything that held back their love has been cleared. They had time to think about the relationship, and it has led to their intention to commit to you. They intend to begin a renewal of the passion and love that was there when you met. They intend to display their appreciation and affection for you after a moment of separation.
If you are asking about an ex’s intentions, the Four of Cups reversed shows that they intend to move on from the hardships of the breakup. They intend to look to the future rather than the past. Their thoughts are overwhelmingly optimistic for the future. They may intend to reconcile and get back together if this future in their mind includes you. They intend to forgive and improve from their break up.
In the context of whether or not a relationship is headed for commitment, engagement, or marriage, the Four of Cups reversed means that this person’s intentions are to become more decisive. They have moved on from their past and intend to make important intentions around their relationships. They intend to make firm commitments if they believe you are the one. The reversed Four of Cups is a positive sign for marriage plans.
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For relationships and feelings, the Four of Cups represents withdrawal and contemplation. This card is inherently philosophical in nature. It is normal for us to want more than we already have, but sometimes, we need to appreciate what is already in front of us. This is critical for any successful relationship.
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