Ace of Wands as How Someone Sees You (Upright & Reversed) Tarot Card Meaning

The Ace of Wands is the card of inspiration, new opportunities, growth, and sizzling romantic potential. The card depicts a hand holding a sprouting wand, extending out from a cloud, offering new opportunities. From a romantic point of view, the wand is also a phallic symbol. This card is full of chemistry and tension.   

The Ace of Wands reminds us that when we are feeling inspired, we should take the opportunities in front of us. As humans, we are meant to grow into our true potential. Though there will always be challenges along the way, that is part of the growth process. 

Upright Ace of Wands as How Someone Sees You

If you are asking about how someone sees you, and you draw the Ace of Wands, that means this person sees you as someone who brings a lot of excitement to their life. They know being with you brings only good things. They are passionate about you. Your chemistry levels are through the roof. Don’t be too surprised if they are flirty; they are just obsessed with the fire you have ignited deep in them.

The Ace of Wands means that they see you as an object of their passion. They are excited about you. They are confident of your connection. They like the sense of newness you make them feel. This person is ready to embark on a new journey with you. They can no longer wait!

For singles and those embarking on new relationships, the Ace of Wands is a sign that they see you as someone they can have new opportunities with. The Ace of Wands upright is all about taking chances. This person is eager to forge a connection with you. In fact, they are obsessed. For those who have just started a new relationship, expect passionate days since your partner is feeling the heat of the moment and they want to express this sensuality with you.

For existing relationships, the Ace of Wands means that they see you as a partner they can always be with. Even though you have been together for a long time, they are still excited about your relationship. They never get tired or bored of you. They are happy that you are together. The spark has never left, which is a good sign of deepening your connection and strengthening your relationship.

If you are asking about an ex’s intentions, the Ace of Wands shows that they see you as an ex they want to get back. They regret ending the relationship. They still find you hot and attractive. They realize life is no longer exciting without you. If you think of reconciliation, this person may feel the same. 

In the context of whether or not a relationship is headed for commitment, engagement, or marriage, the Ace of Wands means that they see you as someone they can embark on a life journey with. Your partner is excited about the new opportunities that will open for both of you. They are passionate about you and see the value in taking the relationship to the next level. All it needs is to know how the future will unfold and if your partner will translate their thoughts into actions.

Reversed Ace of Wands as How Someone Sees You

If you are asking about how someone sees you, and you draw the Ace of Wands reversed, that means this person sees you as a temporary passion. They are highly passionate about you right now. But this kind of excitement only lasts for a while. They cannot sustain such an intense feeling, mainly if talks of a more significant commitment are put on the table. 

The Ace of Wands reversed means that they see you as someone they are no longer passionate about. What started out as a relationship filled with excitement and obsession has now become a connection riddled with idleness. What happened to those sparks? It seems as if the initial feelings for each other may have passed by the day. Efforts need to be made to reignite what has been dimmed.

For singles and those embarking on new relationships, the Ace of Wands reversed is a sign that they see you as an object of their obsession. But unlike with the upright Ace of Wands where the obsession comes from a feeling of prolonged admiration and excitement, this cannot be sustained in the long run. In other words, such a feeling is bound to expire soon. One reason could be past issues that must be addressed before they can truly commit. 

For existing relationships, the Ace of Wands reversed means that they see you as someone who takes them for granted. They feel like the initial feelings of excitement are no longer there. Inspiration cannot be found. They may have many questions about where the feelings have gone; therefore, now is the perfect time to communicate with one another. All relationships have their ups and downs. Exert effort to rekindle the lost flame. Reignite your passion and bring back the spark.

If you are asking about an ex’s intentions, the Ace of Wands reversed shows that they see you as someone they are obsessed with. However, they cannot commit themselves to a relationship. They have a lot of issues, and these problems have gotten in the way of your relationship. If you want to reconcile with your ex, ensure they have resolved their commitment issues first. Otherwise, you are only giving them another chance to hurt you again.

In the context of whether or not a relationship is headed for commitment, engagement, or marriage, the Ace of Wands reversed means that they see you as someone they cannot enter a life commitment yet. They are not ready to take a big step. Yes, the passion is there, but something is preventing them from moving forward. Keep in mind that you have nothing to do with your partner’s shortcomings. They need to come from a willingness to commit before taking the relationship to the next phase.

Conclusion

For relationships and feelings, the Ace of Wands represents passion, excitement, infatuation, and new opportunities. There is strong chemistry and tension in this card. The Ace of Wands is a necessary aspect of any good relationship. The key is figuring out whether this passion is truly here to stay in a sustainable way. 

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