Emperor as Love Advice (Upright & Reversed) Tarot Card Meaning 

The Emperor is the card of leadership, authority, power, and stability. He is Mars personified, in control of everything and everyone around him. He sits upon his throne, holding the ankh in one hand, symbolizing life, and an orb in the other, symbolizing the world. He is energetic, driven, objective, and fearless. 

The Emperor is full of masculine yang energy. As the father of all creation, he believes in protecting everyone around him. He shows love by providing for his loved ones. Underneath his tough exterior, he is still an emotional being, but only shows that side to the ones he trusts the most.

Upright Emperor as Love Advice

If you are asking about love advice, and you draw the Emperor, that means that you are advised to keep your eyes open as you will meet someone who will offer you a new beginning. This person, like you, wants to commit themselves to a partner. They want to provide for you and make you feel like a Queen. Although they may have different gestures of showing love, the sincerity is there. Observe the signs and accept their passion as they are.

For love, the Emperor as advice means that you should profess your feelings towards someone you love. No need to hold back and second guess. The card signifies action, commitment, and stability. Know that you are in good and loving hands. They will lavish you with love and support and shower you with all the attention you want. 

For singles, the Emperor as love advice means you should be ready to fall in love any time soon. Someone who wants to take care of you will show up. This can either be a new person in your life or someone you know who secretly wants you and is ready to take action. They are prepared to commit themselves to you. Their fatherly nature is showing — they want to protect you and provide you with love, care, and support.

For new and potential relationships, the Emperor as love advice means you made the right choice. Your partner is stable and secure. You can be comfortable around them. They want to deepen their connection with you. They are committed and are driven to make the relationship as prosperous and happy as possible. This is an excellent sign for a rock-solid romantic start.

For existing relationships, the Emperor as advice means that they see you as someone they will be with for the rest of their lives. The card suggests a long-lasting relationship. Your partner wants to keep you safe and secure at all times. They don’t want you to leave their side and are ready to show you how much they mean it. This could be a positive sign that your person is already thinking of marriage.

If you are asking about reconciliation with an ex, the Emperor as love advice shows that they may come to you anytime soon. The Emperor is an authority who owns everything he lays his eye on. Your ex didn’t want to let you go, but circumstances caused the relationship to end. But that doesn’t mean they’re already done with you. Reconciliation is highly likely. 

Emperor Reversed as Love Advice

If you are asking about love advice, and you draw the Emperor reversed, that means that you are advised to be mature and stand up for what is right. Don’t let the other person take the seat of power in the relationship all for themselves. Take charge, but be careful not to go overboard. The father archetype is strong, and the Emperor in reverse is all set on domination and control. Balance is everything; too much and it will suffocate your partner; too little and nothing good will come out of it. Having said that, be sure to act with love.

For love, the Emperor reversed as advice means that you should be careful. This person’s overprotection might translate into irrational jealousy and anger. They might hold you hostage for even the most trivial things as if you are walking on eggshells. This may often result from an unresolved past trauma that has something to do with their father or father figure. If you are with this kind of person, understand that you have no control over it. The best help is to support them as they go to a place of healing. But remember not to burn yourself in the process.

For singles, the Emperor reversed as love advice means the person you want to be with may not share the same level of commitment. They may have attachment issues. Yes, they are attracted to you. However, they only see you as a trophy — they like the feeling of winning you over because that signifies they are in control. Their ego is inflated due to unresolved trauma. Ask yourself, is this really the person you want to be with?

For new and potential relationships, the Emperor reversed as love advice means you have communication issues right from the start. Either of you is too proud to communicate their unmet needs and unsaid expectations because you think opening up about it is a sign of weakness. There is already an imbalance at work. But that doesn’t mean there’s no hope. Talk about what you feel, encourage them to be honest about theirs, and watch the connection bud into a romantic and committed relationship.

For existing relationships, the Emperor reversed as advice means that they see you as someone they are always fighting with. There is a power struggle in your relationship right now. You have regular fights and arguments that end up throwing harsh words at each other. There is a cycle of pushing and pulling. One or both of you are not being honest about your emotions, and you are not emotionally ready for a more profound commitment. The best way to deal with this is to be honest with one another and communicate your needs. 

If you are asking about reconciliation with an ex, the Emperor reversed as love advice shows that they no longer want you in their life. They may hook up with you casually, but no emotion of love is involved here. Be careful not to be swayed by their words, particularly if you still hold a candle to them. They don’t want to recommit, and forcing someone like that into a relationship spells doom. The reason is that your breakup will only resurface, causing deeper wounds. Unless the emotional blockage is addressed and removed, reconciliation is improbable.

Conclusion

For relationships and feelings, The Emperor takes a very masculine approach. Though it is different from the feminine approach of the Empress, it does not make the Emperor’s love any less valid. This card reminds us to take a close look at intentions and relationship dynamics when evaluating a relationship. If a person’s love and intentions come from a good place, give them the freedom to express it how they choose.

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