Judgement as Love Advice (Upright & Reversed) Tarot Card Meaning

Judgement is the card of purpose, awakening, renewal, and reckoning. This card is about turning points, and it depicts people rising up to the angel Gabriel’s call. They are finding their calling, and they are reaching their purpose in life. This is also a card of karma. Their outstretched arms show that they are ready to meet their judgement and see where the dice land for them. 

Judgement reminds us that none of us are exempt from karma. We are all subject to the forces of the Universe. If we put out negativity, we will reap what we sow. If we send out positivity, we will be paid back in kind. There will always be a reckoning and a time for self-reflection.  

Upright Judgement as Love Advice

If you are asking about love advice, and you draw Judgement, that means that you are advised to face the future with your head high. The past is already in the past. Your relationship is at a crucial turning point. It’s time to start anew. This time, without the excess baggage of past wounds. 

For love, Judgement as advice means that you should heed Gabriel’s call. This person wants to renew their vows of commitment with you. They want to make the relationship work. Don’t try to stop them from doing so. Instead, work together and keep communication open between you. Be honest with your needs and expectations.

For singles, Judgement as love advice means this person finds meeting you an awakening. They are currently self-reflective. They feel good about a potential relationship. But if they don’t seem like it, they may think and reflect on what a future together with you means. Meeting you has changed something in them, and they are positively attracted to this turning point.

For new and potential relationships, Judgement as love advice means your new partner believes the relationship has a profound purpose. They know you were destined to meet. Your connection is karmic. They want to explore this purposeful meeting. Going against the laws of the Universe could only spell ruin — they don’t want that. This is where the dice have landed for them.

For existing relationships, Judgement as advice means that they see you as a significant person in their life. Even though the relationship has flaws, riddled with misunderstandings and fighting, all of those are in the past now. You have entered a period of reckoning and renewal. There’s no point in dwelling over them. Your partner wants to make it work, and they are willing to make the necessary adjustments. Don’t go against karma’s flow; work together to meet each other’s needs. This turning point is another growth phase you must experience to improve the relationship.

If you are asking about reconciliation with an ex, Judgement as love advice shows that they are thinking of getting back together. You have changed their perspective in life. Your relationship was instrumental in their growth. They realized they wouldn’t be where they are today without you. They are currently weighing their options but will likely reach out soon.

Reversed Judgement as Love Advice

If you are asking about love advice, and you draw Judgement reversed, that means that you are advised to not be swayed by this person’s lack of better judgment. They don’t hold themselves accountable for their actions. Even though they are at fault, they place the blame on anyone, including you. They deny their involvement and would prefer to pass it on to others. Is this the kind of person you want to be with?

For love, Judgement reversed as advice means that you should not let this person’s circumstances affect your capacity to make informed decisions. They don’t want to compromise. They think that compromising means they are being taken advantage of. This person wants the scales to always be in favor of their side. You can do nothing about their problem; they must face it alone. Their current enemy is none other than themselves — all you can do is support on the side lane.

For singles, Judgement reversed as love advice means that this person is not ready for a romantic commitment. Something is blocking them from seeing your worth. It could be that they are too blinded by their own misconceptions of love, or they have past wounds yet to heal. Either way, they are in a period of self-reflection. You can either wait for them or pursue someone sure of you.

For new and potential relationships, Judgement reversed as love advice means your new partner feels frustrated about the relationship. They find it hard to communicate their needs. But they don’t take responsibility for their actions. They see you as the culprit in every misstep. You need to remember that you deserve nothing but love and favorable attraction.

For existing relationships, Judgement reversed as advice means that they see you as someone they cannot be honest with. They blame you for every problem in the relationship. They know it’s not the right thing to do, but your partner prefers you to take the hit instead of themselves. They don’t want to be responsible for their actions. You need to talk about these issues and engage in honest conversations occasionally. They must be completely honest with themselves and what they want from the relationship. If it has come to a point where no common ground is reached, then you should consider whether it’s time to let go or stay. 

If you are asking about reconciliation with an ex, Judgement reversed as love advice shows that your ex only sees you in a negative light. They blame you for what happened. They know their actions contributed to the relationship’s end but don’t want to take responsibility for them. They would instead place everything on you. Reconciliation is not on their mind right now. If you really want to get back to this person, they must first practice accountability and honesty. Otherwise, you are only reopening past wounds.

Conclusion

For relationships and feelings, Judgement represents a turning point and the potential for awakening. All relationships go through turning points at one point or another. Whether upright or reversed, Judgement reminds us that we all will be faced with important decisions in life. The decisions that we make will have a profound effect on our lives. This is a time for you to do some self reflection and find the purpose of your relationship.

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