King of Wands as How Someone Sees You Tarot Card Meaning Sibyl Tarot

The King of Wands is the card of leadership, vision, boldness, and decisiveness. The card depicts a king on his throne, holding a wand as his sceptre. He looks out into the distance towards his kingdom. He has a vision for his empire, and he is ready to make decisions to expand it. He is full of relentless optimism for the future.  

The King of Wands is the zenith of the suit of wands. The King of Wands reminds us that it is important to have a bold vision for your relationships, and to be decisive in your decision making. When you know yourself deeply, you will know what the right choice is. You won’t hesitate, because you will be perfectly aligned with your authentic self. 

Upright King of Wands as How Someone Sees You

If you are asking about how someone sees you, and you draw the King of Wands, that means this person sees you as someone they love. They want to spend as much time as possible with you. This is not a basic love, but a deeply rooted love that is quite unbreakable. They see you as someone they definitely want, and nothing can change their mind.

The King of Wands means that they see you as someone they can be kind too. As the King of Wands suggests, they may have a quick temper or strong opinions, but they notice that you calm them. They find themselves always being generous to you even when they are not in a good mood. The way they see you is amazing for the beginning and survival of a relationship.

For singles and those embarking on new relationships, the King of Wands is a sign that they see you as a mature source of love. They are serious about their love for you. They do not see you as a fling or temporary lover. They see you as a long-term connection. There is nothing short-term about their intentions with you.

For existing relationships, the King of Wands means that they see you as a shining light in their life. You bring nothing but happiness to them. There never exists a dull moment between you two. This relationship is bound to last for very long. They are ready to take the relationship to the next level.

If you are asking about an ex’s intentions, the King of Wands shows that they see you as someone they cannot escape from. They never stop thinking about you. It causes them an immense amount of suffering to not be with you. They know they will make a plan to get back together with you. They cannot live without it.

In the context of whether or not a relationship is headed for commitment, engagement, or marriage, the King of Wands means that they see you as someone they love deeply. This translates to a high probability of marriage. They have genuine intense love for you, and this is the basis for any strong marriage. Even if they are not necessarily thinking directly about marriage, they would accept and offer with you. All they see is someone they want to be together with forever.

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Reversed King of Wands as How Someone Sees You

If you are asking about how someone sees you, and you draw the King of Wands reversed, that means this person sees you as someone that pressures them. Some things in your connection do not feel natural. They feel that you often push and persuade them for things. Make sure to respect them and their boundaries and maybe take things slightly slower.

The King of Wands reversed means that they see you as someone that gives them little direction. This means they feel lost. They see you as someone that prevents them from thinking long-term about their life. They are caught up in the mundane daily-life with you. Offer them guidance because that is all they need right now.

For singles and those embarking on new relationships, the King of Wands reversed is a sign that they see you as someone that stresses them to commit to. They have been single for a while, and they are scared to commit and keep someone satisfied. Entering a relationship is very scary. Comfort them and make it known that they do not need to start a relationship with them if they do not want to. Cater to their wants and needs.

For existing relationships, the King of Wands reversed means that they see you as someone they no longer know how to think about. They don’t know where the relationship is going. When they talk to you and think about you, they are lost. They see you as lacking authenticity. Sitting down and being honest is the best way to correct this issue.

If you are asking about an ex’s intentions, the King of Wands reversed shows that they see you as someone that makes them feel lost. They do not know if they want to rekindle a bond, or attempt to completely forget about you. It hurts them to think about it. They must reflect on what they truly want before you can consider reaching out to them again.

In the context of whether or not a relationship is headed for commitment, engagement, or marriage, the King of Wands reversed means that they see you as someone that lacks vision. They also feel that they lack vision for the future. They do not see you as someone who would be confident enough to keep a marriage going during its rough moments. If marriage is something you truly want with this person, assure them that you do have that confidence.

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Conclusion

For relationships and feelings, the King of Wands represents having a bold vision and being decisive in your actions. The King of Wands is the consummate CEO, always guiding the boat forwards. The King of Wands reminds us that we each need to be leaders in our relationships. Co-lead the relationship with your partner, and you will find success together. 

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