King of Wands as Intentions (Upright & Reversed) Tarot Card Meaning

The King of Wands is the card of leadership, vision, boldness, and decisiveness. The card depicts a king on his throne, holding a wand as his scepter. He looks out into the distance towards his kingdom. He has a vision for his empire, and he is ready to make decisions to expand it. He is full of relentless optimism for the future.  

The King of Wands is the zenith of the suit of wands. The King of Wands reminds us that it is important to have a bold vision for your relationships, and to be decisive in your decision making. When you know yourself deeply, you will know what the right choice is. You won’t hesitate, because you will be perfectly aligned with your authentic self. 

Upright King of Wands as Intentions

If you are asking about someone’s intentions towards you, and you draw the King of Wands, that means this person intends to pursue a long-lasting relationship with you. This person is truly in it for the long haul; their love and enthusiasm for you and your relationship goes far beyond a superficial level. They know what they want, have faith that you are part of the plan, and will do whatever it takes to make sure all their dreams come true.

The King of Wands as intentions means that they want to indulge you. They can have a hot temper that clouds their judgment, but they are also quick to reconcile. They love you very deeply and putting their pride aside to apologize for taking their anger out on you is easy for them to do. They intend on keeping this connection with you alive and well because they are sure that what you have is one in a million.

For singles and those embarking on new relationships, the King of Wands is a sign of them intending on starting a long-term relationship with you. This person is mature, experienced, and knows exactly what they want — you! It’s a good sign for any potential relationship because their intentions towards you are long-term. They intend on taking good care of you for years to come.

For existing relationships, the King of Wands represents an intention to make this work. This connection you two share is undeniable and radiates pure joy. There may be bumps in the road, but your person never hesitates to forgive and look forward with optimism for what comes next. They are willing to put in the work to make this relationship work out. They truly want what is best for you and this relationship.

If you are asking about an ex’s intentions, the King of Wands shows that they intend on coming back to you. They are still madly in love with you and can’t imagine a future without you. Spending time alone has made them realize just how much of an impact you had on their life. They have a plan to win you back and are ready to put it into motion. 

In the context of whether or not a relationship is headed for commitment, engagement, or marriage, the King of Wands means that this person’s intentions are to take your relationship farther soon. Your partner cherishes you deeply and is devoted to the future of your relationship. Their love for you comes as easy as breathing air and they are ready to make the decision to set this in stone. They have a clear vision of your future together and cannot wait to take that first step.

Reversed King of Wands as Intentions

If you are asking about someone’s intentions towards you, and you draw the King of Wands reversed, that means this person intends on putting up a front. This person feels pressured by you. They feel that they cannot be themselves and they must put up a facade in order to please everyone around them. We may try to influence the behavior of others and push them towards what we think is best, but it’s important that we remember everyone has their own individual journey. It can be daunting for someone if they feel trapped by expectations or pressure from outside sources.

The King of Wands reversed as intentions means that they want to find their way. They are content with just going with the flow and haven’t really given the future much thought. They do not want to think about the future, and while it is important to just enjoy life, it’s also important to set goals for the future.

For singles and those embarking on new relationships, the King of Wands reversed is a sign of them intending on figuring out what they want to do next. This individual lives for the present and is unbothered by planning ahead. Instead, they enjoy the thrill of taking life one day at a time and embracing each new experience that comes their way. However, if you’re seeking something more permanent or structured in terms of commitment then it might be best to appreciate this person from afar.

For existing relationships, the King of Wands reversed represents an intention to be authentic. They want to be themselves, but they can’t. There’s a wall between you two as your partner feels that they cannot open up to you. They are being pressured into being someone they’re not, and it’s really draining them. Without a clear vision of who they are, they can’t possibly know what they want. Take some time to sit down with your partner and let them know that they can be themselves around you. Take the pressure off their shoulders — they really need it.

If you are asking about an ex’s intentions, the King of Wands reversed shows that they intend on wandering for now. They don’t know what they want. They feel lost, and they need to take this time for themselves. They’re on a self-journey right now and the best thing that you can do for them is to support them from afar. Let them figure out who they are and what they want to do in life.

In the context of whether or not a relationship is headed for commitment, engagement, or marriage, the King of Wands reversed means that this person’s intentions are to find their vision first. They can’t clearly see you in their future, which is why they’re hesitant to commit. Your partner needs to find themselves before pursuing you. Give them some space and allow them to find their vision.

Conclusion

For relationships and feelings, the King of Wands represents having a bold vision and being decisive in your actions. The King of Wands is the consummate CEO, always guiding the boat forwards. The King of Wands reminds us that we each need to be leaders in our relationships. Co-lead the relationship with your partner, and you will find success together. 

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