Knight of Wands as How Someone Sees You (Upright & Reversed) Tarot Card Meaning

The Knight of Wands is the card of courage, charm, high energy, and hot tempers. The card shows a knight mounted on horseback, riding furiously to his destination. He is dressed well and full of enthusiasm. Whatever his mission is, he will accomplish it. He is ready to conquer new lands. His horse rises up on its hind legs, ready for action and thirsting for a fight.  

The Knight of Wands is all about the pursuit. Whereas the Page of Wands had the initial idea, the Knight of Wands is ready to take it and conquer it. This card is a sign and a reminder for us. When it comes to the things we most desire in life, this card urges us to go for it. Seize the day. You can do this.

Upright Knight of Wands as How Someone Sees You

If you are asking about how someone sees you, and you draw the Knight of Wands, that means this person sees you as charmable. They want to charm and conquer you. They are passionate and fiery-natured when they think about you. They will be impulsive when they get any chance to win you over. They see you as desirable and overwhelmingly attractive.

The Knight of Wands means that they see you as someone they want to adventure with. They can accept rejection, and they do not fear it. They see you as someone that they can shoot their shot with. Even if you resist, they will be very happy that they will not live in regret.

For singles and those embarking on new relationships, the Knight of Wands is a sign that they see you as someone they urgently want to start a relationship with. You infatuate, excite, and shackle them in love. Their feelings are so intense that it causes them to be volatile, so be careful. If you give them the opportunity, they will become romantic with you and attempt to embark on a relationship.

For existing relationships, the Knight of Wands means that they see you as someone they become more passionate about every day. None of their feelings are fading, rather they are exponentially increasing. They want to always be your knight in shining armor. They see you as a source of excitement, love, happiness, and loyalty. They truly see you as someone they love. Their behavior is intense as a result, so address this if it has been a past problem in the relationship.

If you are asking about an ex’s intentions, the Knight of Wands shows that they still see you as alluring and attractive. They would sacrifice anything to be with you for a few moments again. This could be dangerous, as the feelings could solely be physical. Make sure they see you emotionally and not just physically before allowing reconciliation.

In the context of whether or not a relationship is headed for commitment, engagement, or marriage, the Knight of Wands means that they see you as someone that threatens their independence. They are a knight, and independence is key to their wellbeing. They have overwhelming passion and lust for you, but marriage would destroy their independence. For this reason, they are not considering marriage. They are hot-headed and fast-tempered. Marriage is not the best idea until these qualities are managed.

Reversed Knight of Wands as How Someone Sees You

If you are asking about how someone sees you, and you draw the Knight of Wands reversed, that means this person sees you as something they need. They have lost some of their sense of reality, and have become reckless. Because they see you this way, they will win you no matter the sacrifice. This can be a negative thing if they do not get their way.

The Knight of Wands reversed means that they see you as someone they need to chase, but could also forget about tomorrow. When they focus on something, they only think about that one thing. However, their attention is often shifted. If their attention is shifted away from you, they may ignore you or seem like they don’t even know you exist. They do not see you as someone to love passively each day. Instead, they take a more active, direct approach to love.

For singles and those embarking on new relationships, the Knight of Wands reversed is a sign that they see you as someone to pursue. They are all about the pursuit. They will keep trying until they complete their objective. Their objective is to start a relationship with you. Be careful, because many hearts are broken when the reversed Knight of Wands is drawn.

For existing relationships, the Knight of Wands reversed means that they see you as someone without boundaries. They treat the relationship like their playground. They trample over boundaries and often only care for themselves. Although they still love you and care for you, you need to assert your boundaries or the relationship will continue with this toxicity.

If you are asking about an ex’s intentions, the Knight of Wands reversed shows that they see you as someone they no longer care about. The Knight of Wands indicates plenty of selfishness, and this is how they are after the breakup. They are focusing completely on being single and not being in a relationship. This makes reconciliation almost impossible, but you can make anything possible that you truly desire.

In the context of whether or not a relationship is headed for commitment, engagement, or marriage, the Knight of Wands reversed means that they do not see you as their spouse at your current point in the relationship. Marriage commitment is huge and something that they are not yet ready for. They need some time to relax from their profuse love for you when they are in pursuit of a relationship. There is hope for a future, but right now your partner does not see marriage in their plans.

Conclusion

For relationships and feelings, the Knight of Wands represents passion and pursuit. When it comes to the people we love, there’s nothing that can stop us. Live for today, and seize the moment. You are capable of doing this. Let your passion and love lead the way, everything else will follow. 

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