Seven of Wands as How Someone Sees You (Upright & Reversed) Tarot Card Meaning

The Seven of Wands is the card of protection, defense, and taking a stand for the things that matter. The card shows a man standing on a hill and being challenged by his opponents below. He is resilient and he does not give up. He is defending his position and he is giving it his all. He is taking a stand for himself.  

The Seven of Wands reminds us that there are times in life where you need to stand up for yourself and what you believe in. We are meant to defend and protect the people we care about the most. The Seven of Wands reminds us that tenacity and persistence will be rewarded. 

Upright Seven of Wands as How Someone Sees You

If you are asking about how someone sees you, and you draw the Seven of Wands, that means this person sees you as a person who is worth it. There are people who doubt you and your relationship, but even still, they are willing to go up against anyone for you. They want to be with you — no matter who or what gets in their way. They will continue to defend your honor. This is an amazing person to begin a relationship with. 

The Seven of Wands means that they see you as a person they are willing to risk it all for. This person is willing to go the extra mile for you and your relationship. Despite any bumps in the road, they know that this effort will pay off in happiness. They have faith that their commitment to making it work isn’t misplaced, holding onto hope even when times are trying.

For singles and those embarking on new relationships, the Seven of Wands is a sign that they see you as a great partner. This person is really invested in you and your relationship. They are putting their all into making it work, even standing up to anyone who tries to get in the way of it! It’s clear they’re looking forward with anticipation as they watch how things progress between the two of you — a future full of hope & growth ahead just for this special bond.

For existing relationships, the Seven of Wands means that they see you as someone worth fighting for. If you and your partner still have feelings for one another, now is the time to give it a go. Even if things haven’t been going well recently, there’s always hope when two people are determined to make it work. Instead of burying your head in the sand, take this opportunity to really understand what each of you needs from the relationship — only then can true happiness be achieved.

If you are asking about an ex’s intentions, the Seven of Wands shows that they see you as someone they’re willing to fight for again. They’ve realized their mistakes and after spending some time alone, they know now that they want to fight for you again. They want to stand by your side, even if things get rough. This person is truly in love with you and they’re willing to do whatever it takes to prove it to you. 

In the context of whether or not a relationship is headed for commitment, engagement, or marriage, the Seven of Wands means that they see you as they want to make it work with. Your partner is committed to fighting for the relationship, showing their love and dedication. It’s important that you both have an open and honest dialogue about what needs to change in order to evolve together. Come up with a shared vision of your future, once you are on the same page success will be inevitable.

Reversed Seven of Wands as How Someone Sees You

If you are asking about how someone sees you, and you draw the Seven of Wands reversed, that means this person sees you as someone to blame. This person is putting up a wall, unable to recognize their role in the problem and desperate for someone else to bear its burden. Without specific goals and objectives, they’re essentially spinning their wheels — making effort but not getting any closer towards resolution.

The Seven of Wands reversed means that they see you as a confusing person. Your relationship is walking a tightrope, and it can be hard for both of you to find the right footing. It’s understandable that they feel frustrated. Often genuine efforts go unrecognized or don’t produce the desired results — leaving them feeling powerless in an already difficult situation.

For singles and those embarking on new relationships, the Seven of Wands reversed is a sign that they see you as who pushes their buttons. Things aren’t looking so good right now, but success won’t be served on a silver platter. To turn it around and get things going in the right direction again, they’ll need to take an active role, adopting a humble attitude and being willing to listen as much as possible is essential for any positive change.

For existing relationships, the Seven of Wands reversed means that they see you as someone who doesn’t appreciate what they do. It’s clear that your relationship is in a fragile state. Your partner has put forth the effort to rectify the situation, yet it hasn’t been successful so far. It may be worth self-reflecting and asking if you’ve had any part in this difficulty or whether they are taking on an attitude of despair without considering other options. Unless your significant other makes conscious changes, progress will remain elusive — no matter how many attempts at reconciliation have already been made!

If you are asking about an ex’s intentions, the Seven of Wands reversed shows that they see you as the sole purpose for the breakup. It’s clear that the end of this relationship has been a difficult experience for everyone involved. Unfortunately, this person might be avoiding responsibility and shifting blame to you. They are not able to accept their own contributions to what happened. 

In the context of whether or not a relationship is headed for commitment, engagement, or marriage, the Seven of Wands reversed means that they see you as someone who they don’t want to commit to yet. They may be trying to avoid the situation, but it’s important you stay firm and draw clear boundaries. Let them know what behavior is acceptable and make sure they understand that change must happen if both of your wants are going to be met, otherwise their head-in-the-sand mentality will get neither of you anywhere.

Conclusion

For relationships and feelings, the Seven of Wands represents boundaries and fighting for what you believe in. There are times in life where you should not give up, because the people you love are worth fighting for. The Seven of Wands reminds us that boundaries and limits are key to every successful relationship, and communication is needed. 

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