Six of Swords as How Someone Sees You (Upright & Reversed) Tarot Card Meaning

The Six of Swords is the card of moving on, departure, leaving behind, and acceptance. This card shows a man rowing a woman and child on a boat to a new place. They are leaving something behind, as their backs are turned towards us. The woman and the child have their hoods up, perhaps hiding their true identities. Though this scene is sad, they are moving towards a better future. 

The Six of Swords reminds us that we are all on a journey. Sometimes, we find people who will be at our side forever. Other times, we find people who will travel with us for only a period of time. The Six of Swords is a reminder that it is okay to move on. Release what no longer serves you. We will continue onwards with all of the lessons that we have learned.

Upright Six of Swords as How Someone Sees You

If you are asking about how someone sees you, and you draw the Six of Swords, that means this person sees you as someone they can move into the future with. The past is behind both of you. They want to think about only the future. They see you as a stable part of their future. This brings them a lot of positivity because they no longer have to carry the baggage of their past with them, and neither do you!

The Six of Swords means that they see you as a symbol of acceptance. You make them feel accepted and they also accept everything that has happened to them. They have come to a realization that accepting the past because they cannot change it is most beneficial. There is no reason to be negative about something out of your hands. They see you as someone that has helped them greatly with this mindset.

For singles and those embarking on new relationships, the Six of Swords is a sign that they see you as someone they can start a relationship with. The Six of Swords is all about the future, so they are only thinking about building a relationship, family, and life together with someone. This someone is you. They are ready to embark on a new relationship and they hope you are too.

For existing relationships, the Six of Swords means that they see you as someone they cannot hold a grudge against any longer. You both have had your wrongdoings to each other early in the relationship, but it no longer bothers either of you. This relationship is now as healthy as it can be because the negatives of the relationship have been accepted. They see you as a forgiving and loving person that they want to continue being with.

If you are asking about an ex’s intentions, the Six of Swords shows that they see you as someone only for the future. They never think about your breakup, but rather how they can get back together with you. They don’t care about the past toxicity because they know they will never allow it to happen again. Reconciliation is a great possibility if you draw the Six of Swords.

In the context of whether or not a relationship is headed for commitment, engagement, or marriage, the Six of Swords means that they see you as a spouse. They would get married tomorrow if you proposed. This is because they know they want to be with you and none of your negative qualities bother them. This is an amazing dynamic in a relationship and makes for a great marriage.

Reversed Six of Swords as How Someone Sees You

If you are asking about how someone sees you, and you draw the Six of Swords reversed, that means this person sees you as someone they cannot move forward with. Unlike the upright Six of Swords, this person cannot accept the past. The wrongdoings linger in their thought process. They are pulled back when they think about strengthening a relationship with you, even though they have the love and passion necessary for a deep relationship.

The Six of Swords reversed means that they see you as a change in their life, but they are resistant to it. They do not want to change things in their life. They see you as a force that has come into their life and forced them to adopt a new relationship lifestyle. However, they are scared of this lifestyle and they are hesitant to do it. They need time to think about if this is what they want.

For singles and those embarking on new relationships, the Six of Swords reversed is a sign that they see you as unable to move forward. You do great as friends, but they cannot muster up the courage to start a relationship. This makes it extremely painful for both parties because you both very well could want to be with each other romantically, but no one will ever make the first move. This transforms into an unbearable amount of regret later in life when you think back to them.

For existing relationships, the Six of Swords reversed means that they see you as comfortable. They do not want anything to change between you. This could be a positive, but also a negative depending on your goals. If you want a casual relationship that is nothing too serious, then this is a great sign. However, if you want a serious relationship with the potential for marriage and kids then this is a terrible sign. Have an honest conversation with your partner about what they truly want in life.

If you are asking about an ex’s intentions, the Six of Swords reversed shows that they see you as someone they cannot forget about. They have remained hung up on you since you broke up. They want to get back together with you, and it is your decision if you want this to happen. They could be wanting you just because of how lonely they feel after getting out of a relationship.

In the context of whether or not a relationship is headed for commitment, engagement, or marriage, the Six of Swords reversed means that they see you as a casual connection. Marriage is not on their mind. They do not want the relationship to advance or change. They are satisfied with how it is now. Marriage is a possibility in the future, but currently it is not. 

Conclusion

For relationships and feelings, the Six of Swords represents the journey of love. It is okay to move on when a situation is no longer serving you and your needs. It does not make the love that we have experienced any less valid. You will always take the lessons learned from it with you, and it will stay there within your heart. 

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