Strength as Sex & Intimacy (Upright & Reversed) Tarot Card Meaning

Strength is the card of strength, compassion, influence, persuasion, and determination. A woman is gently stroking a lion—she has completely tamed this wild beast. Strength shows what is possible when resilience and kindness is applied to a situation. Sometimes, it is not brute force, but inner strength that makes the most impact on a person or a relationship. 

Strength is not a traditional “love” card, and many readers get confused when it shows up in a love reading. Does it literally mean that someone feels strongly about you? There are many other cards that speak to romantic passion, so we have to ask ourselves, what is Strength trying to say in particular? As you’ll see, I interpret Strength as speaking to the dynamics between people. In love readings, Strength asks us to consider the balance of power and care in a relationship. 

Upright Strength as Sex & Intimacy

If you are asking about sex or intimacy and you draw Strength, it suggests that your connection is tender, deeply loyal, and fueled by emotional and physical self-control. There’s a quiet power here—something that grows stronger through patience, presence, and care. This kind of bond values emotional safety and long-term connection over impulsive desire.

Strength as a message about sex and intimacy reveals an experience that feels patient, trusting, and rooted in quiet confidence and mutual respect. It’s about tuning into each other’s needs and creating space for vulnerability without judgment. This card points to intimacy that is both deeply sensual and emotionally safe.

If you are wondering about someone’s sexual feelings towards you, and you draw Strength, it means they feel strong attraction that they’re handling with care and emotional depth. They may be holding back slightly—not because they’re disinterested, but because they want the timing and connection to feel right. Their desire is steady, respectful, and grounded in genuine care.

Strength as someone’s sexual attraction and desire towards you suggests they want to build something meaningful and are drawn to your inner and outer power. They admire your presence and may feel emotionally moved by your energy. Their passion is real, but it’s expressed through loyalty, patience, and gentle intensity.

If you’re asking about a one-night stand or casual intimacy, Strength suggests it will be deeply sensual, emotionally conscious, and possibly more lasting than expected. Even in a casual setting, there’s potential for emotional depth and respectful connection. This encounter may bring warmth, healing, or a surprising sense of closeness.

If you’re wondering whether this connection can deepen sexually and emotionally, Strength shows that it absolutely can—with mutual effort, emotional maturity, and trust. The connection may not be fast-moving, but it has the endurance to grow into something stable and meaningful. Both people must stay present, consistent, and emotionally honest.

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Reversed Strength as Sex & Intimacy

If you are asking about sex or intimacy and you draw Strength reversed, it suggests that your connection is strained by insecurity, emotional imbalance, or repressed desire. There may be holding back out of fear, shame, or not feeling safe to express true needs. This can make the dynamic feel tense, confusing, or off-center.

Strength reversed as a message about sex and intimacy reveals an experience that feels vulnerable, overly intense, or lacking the emotional strength to feel safe. Someone might be acting out of fear rather than love, or craving closeness without knowing how to give or receive it in a healthy way. Emotional grounding is missing, which makes true intimacy harder to reach.

If you are wondering about someone’s sexual feelings towards you, and you draw Strength reversed, it means they may be struggling with inner fears or low confidence around intimacy. They could feel desire but not know how to express it without anxiety or self-doubt. This inner tension can show up as hesitation, mixed signals, or emotional withdrawal.

Strength reversed as someone’s sexual attraction and desire towards you suggests they feel overwhelmed or unsure how to express their desire in a healthy way. They may crave closeness but not yet have the emotional tools to approach it with balance or confidence. This can create emotional friction or power struggles in the connection.

If you’re asking about a one-night stand or casual intimacy, Strength reversed suggests it will be emotionally messy or leave one person feeling exposed or misunderstood. The lack of emotional clarity or mutual understanding could lead to regret or disconnection afterward. It’s important to be honest with yourself about your emotional needs before moving forward.

If you’re wondering whether this connection can deepen sexually and emotionally, Strength reversed shows that healing and self-awareness are needed before it can grow in a safe way. One or both people need to address emotional insecurities or fear of vulnerability. Without that inner work, the relationship may stay stuck in unhealthy or unbalanced patterns.

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Conclusion

For relationships and feelings, Strength reveals the foundational state of a bond. It shines light into how secure a person is feeling. It also shows us what we need to do to bring that energy of strength and security into our lives–by leaning into our inner fortitude, kindness, and empathy. If you allow it, Strength’s energy will make your relationships stronger and more durable. Shine in your own confidence. 

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