Ace of Wands as Feelings in Love & Relationships (Upright & Reversed)

The Ace of Wands is the card of inspiration, new opportunities, growth, and sizzling romantic potential. The card depicts a hand holding a sprouting wand, extending out from a cloud, offering new opportunities. From a romantic point of view, the wand is also a phallic symbol. This card is full of chemistry and tension.   

The Ace of Wands reminds us that when we are feeling inspired, we should take the opportunities in front of us. As humans, we are meant to grow into our true potential. Though there will always be challenges along the way, that is part of the growth process. 

Upright Ace of Wands as Feelings

If you are asking about how someone feels about you and you draw the Ace of Wands, it means that this person is feeling excited and passionate about you. You’ve ignited something deep within them, and they are obsessed. They feel that you have very strong chemistry together. They feel flirty and sensual.

This person also feels excited about your relationship potential. They are in love with the idea of where your relationship could go. They delight in the newness of it all. They feel that there are new opportunities with you, and they are determined to see for themselves what those opportunities might bring. 

For singles and those embarking on new relationships, the Ace of Wands means that this person has very strong feelings for you. They are passionate and excited about you, and they feel that you have very strong chemistry together. They are utterly obsessed and infatuated by you and the newness of it all. This is the passion you need at the start of a relationship. You’ll have to see how it continues to unfold over time.   

For existing relationships, the Ace of Wands indicates that this person feels excited about you and the relationship. Even though you’ve been together for a while now, their spark for you is still strong. They still find newness and excitement in your relationship, which is a great sign. Lean into this as you continue to build your relationship together.

If you are asking about an old flame or an ex’s feelings about you, the Ace of Wands indicates that they are obsessing over you. They still hold a candle for you. They still find you attractive and engaging. They still see the potential in the relationship. If you are wondering if you will get back together with your ex, this card is a very good sign. 

In the context of whether or not a relationship is headed for commitment, engagement, or marriage, the Ace of Wands signals that the passion for you is there. Your partner sees the potential in taking the next step with you. They are excited about what new opportunities that might bring for the two of you. You will need to see if this goes beyond ideas and words and into manifestation.  

Reversed Ace of Wands as Feelings

When the Ace of Wands is reversed, it means that this person is feeling intensely passionate about you, but in an unsustainable way that may quickly burn out. They are very excited about you, but they may turn out to be a commitment phobe as soon as you want something more. The new beginning of the Ace cannot be sustained. 

Alternatively, the Ace of Wands reversed can also be a sign of this person feeling like the passion in your relationship is missing. They are wondering where the initial passion for each other went as you both got bogged down in the day-to-day. In that case, effort needs to be made to ignite your passion for each other once more. 

For singles and those in new relationships, the Ace of Wands reversed is a sign of feeling passionate about you to the point of unsustainability. This person is obsessed with you, and they are utterly infatuated. However, they might be struggling with past baggage that makes them shy to truly commit. They want to have their cake and eat it too. They are frustrated when this attitude does not pan out for them.   

For those in committed relationships, the Ace of Wands reversed is a sign of feeling like your relationship is missing the old passion. This person may feel ignored or taken for granted. They are wondering where your initial passion for each other went. This is a sign for you to communicate with your partner and put some of the spark back into your relationship. Every relationship goes through ups and downs, so this may just be one of those periods. Rekindle what you have. 

If you are asking about an ex’s feelings about you, the Ace of Wands reversed means that they still think and obsess over you, but they are lacking the ability to make a permanent commitment. Though they have a great connection with you, their own issues are holding them back. Until they deal with the root of the problem, their commitment issues will always be a barrier to a true reconciliation. 

In the context of whether or not a relationship is headed for commitment, engagement, or marriage, the Ace of Wands reversed means that they are not ready. They feel passionate about you, but they have some commitment issues that are holding them back. These issues do not have to do with you, but stems from their own inability to commit. They need to get to a point where they are ready to close the deal.  

Conclusion

For relationships and feelings, the Ace of Wands represents passion, excitement, infatuation, and new opportunities. There is strong chemistry and tension in this card. The Ace of Wands is a necessary aspect of any good relationship. The key is figuring out whether this passion is truly here to stay in a sustainable way. 

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