Ace of Wands as Reconciliation Tarot Card Meaning Sibyl Tarot

The Ace of Wands is the card of inspiration, new opportunities, growth, and sizzling romantic potential. The card depicts a hand holding a sprouting wand, extending out from a cloud, offering new opportunities. From a romantic point of view, the wand is also a phallic symbol. This card is full of chemistry and tension.

The Ace of Wands reminds us that when we are feeling inspired, we should take the opportunities in front of us. As humans, we are meant to grow into our true potential. Though there will always be challenges along the way, that is part of the growth process.

Upright Ace of Wands as Reconciliation

If you are asking about how your ex feels about reconciling with you, and you draw the Ace of Wands, it means they are feeling passionate about restarting a relationship with you. They are still infatuated. Your ex especially misses having intimate moments with you. Perhaps they’ve realized that nobody else matches you when it comes to the chemistry you have together. They want to restart and give your relationship a second chance.

Ace of Wands as reconciliation is a sign of reignition of passion. Since the Wands suit is a suit that represents fire energy, your ex is realizing that you bring out the best in them. You inspire, energize, and motivate your person. Perhaps when you were together, your energy was contagious, and it helped them be more productive. They miss you and your vibe.

When your ex thinks about reconciliation with you, they feel excited. Perhaps life without you has been dull and monotonous. They certainly miss the intimacy. They feel what you had together sparked raw energy and excitement. Even if they seem like they are holding back and are calm on the surface, deep down, they feel impatient to move forward. 

If you’ve recently split up, Ace of Wands means your person fantasizes about your intimate moments a lot. You may have had your intellectual or emotional differences, but they definitely felt compatible when it came to intimacy. Even if you were not into the same things, they still find you physically attractive and are still turned on by the thought of you. If you are on social media, this person could be checking on your account compulsively.

If you’ve been in separation for a while, Ace of Wands means they are still obsessively thinking about you. They are hopeful that someday the two of you could start over. This could be your ex waiting for either one of you to become available or ready to date again. To interpret this card somewhat literally: they still carry a torch for you.

If the two of you are still considering whether or not you should break up, the Ace of Wands means your person is hoping that there will be a resolution. The Aces always carry raw energy, while the Wands suit can be quite primal. They know it would be unlikely that they could find another person who matches them as effortlessly and naturally as you do. They view losing you as a missed opportunity. If they seem unwilling to compromise, they could be feeling hopeful that you will be the one to compromise. Either way, your person is hopeful that there can be a new beginning rather than an ending.

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Reversed Ace of Wands as Reconciliation

If you are asking about how your ex feels about reconciling with you, and you draw the Ace of Wands reversed, it means your ex could be experiencing a conflict between the heart, the body, and the mind. They could feel extremely turned on by you on a physical level or they could be obsessed with you. But their rational mind thinks reconciliation would be an unwise idea. This inner conflict may manifest into a situation where your person compulsively tries to find out what you’re up to on social media out of habit, and then quickly closes the app because they feel silly doing so and believe they should move on.

Ace of Wands reversed as reconciliation is a sign of extreme emotions or feeling overly excited. In the reverse, this could indicate a rashly-made decision to reconcile. The two of you could enjoy a very passionate post-reconciliation ‘high’ only for the relationship to come crashing down again as soon as you hit a sore spot or an irreconcilable difference. This could be a reconciliation that was purely based on passion but not well-thought out in terms of working through known issues.

When your ex thinks about reconciliation with you, they feel pessimistic. Your ex is thinking about how emotionally exhausting and draining dealing with your disagreements was, especially if they involved heated arguments. This person perhaps is not too keen on a reconciliation as they equate the idea of reconciliation with conflict. This person may not be ready to give the relationship a second chance, even if they feel passionately toward you.

If you’ve recently split up, Ace of Wands reversed means a bruised ego. The Wands suit is a suit that can be quite prideful—in some cases spiteful and vengeful as well. When your relationship ended, your person’s primary emotion could have been anger. If you’re hoping to reconcile with your person, the best thing to do for now is to let them cool down. At the moment, this person is not in the headspace for reconciliation.

If you’ve been in separation for a while, Ace of Wands reversed means they still think about you often. In some cases this may even indicate an obsession. If your person is already in a new relationship, they could feel guilty about still thinking about you. As much as they find you alluring and physically attractive, the guilt alone is enough to turn them off from the idea of you. The Ace of Wands in reverse is not a positive sign that would indicate a chance for reconciliation.

If the two of you are still considering whether or not you should break up, Ace of Wands reversed means this person may be feeling reluctant to break it off with you. On your end, you could feel your relationship is going nowhere as this card could indicate stalling. They could be uncertain about breaking, yet they could also be unwilling to compromise or resolving long-term issues.This card could also indicate staying with a partner solely out of physical compatibility despite lacking emotional or mental fulfillment.

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For relationships and reconciliation, the Ace of Wands represents passion, excitement, infatuation, and new opportunities. There is strong chemistry and tension in this card. The Ace of Wands is a necessary aspect of any good relationship. The key is figuring out whether this passion is truly here to stay in a sustainable way.

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