Chariot as Reconciliation (Upright & Reversed) Tarot Card Meaning

The Chariot is the card of triumph, success, determination, and action. The Chariot shows a brave warrior standing tall in his chariot. He is all about taking charge and moving forward. He is not about thinking or feeling, but about doing. Although this is a great card to get in a financial or career reading, it bodes more ominously for matters of love.

The Chariot knows what he wants and how to get it. Although the two sphinxes in the front of the carriage are pulling in different directions, the Chariot has a strength of steel. He pushes them to go his way and to follow his will. 

Upright Chariot as Reconciliation

If you are asking about how someone feels about reconciling with you, and you draw the Chariot this means that their feelings for you are crystal clear to them. They want you back, and they know it. However, the Chariot isn’t a very emotional card so their need to ‘conquer’ you may be stemming from the desire to win a challenge. They may see you as less of a person and more of a trophy to show off. The Chariot is more focused on getting things done rather than thinking or feeling. This means that the feelings of your person are more due to the thrill of the hunt rather than true love. 

The Chariot as feelings of reconciliation can mean that they are stubborn. They can’t stand not having you, if that means losing you. You are a challenge to be conquered and unless that happens, they won’t stop. They are as disciplined as they are tenacious, meaning they cannot be persuaded easily. If they set their mind to something, they will do it, and they’ll do it successfully. But, this also means that they are very confident in themselves and do not feel the need to be in a relationship to feel happiness. They are perfectly content on their own.

However, the Chariot can sometimes also indicate that they are ready to move on, if your relationship has been too complicated. The Chariot is all about movement — it’s about trudging on and stopping for no one, even if that someone is you. They enjoyed your time together, but they feel that they’ve won you and now it’s time to move on to the next big challenge.

If you’ve recently split up, there’s still a chance that your partner has unfinished business with you. After all, the Chariot also stands for determination and perseverance, so if they feel like they aren’t done with you, they will pursue you. However, I wouldn’t get my hopes up as your partner is very self-content on their own. They love the thrill of the hunt but who knows how long this will go on? Once the goal is achieved they will have no need for you anymore.

If you’ve been in separation for a while, don’t get your hopes up. The moment between you two has passed, and as hurtful as it sounds, your partner is already moving on. They think of you fondly, but will make no moves to reconcile your relationship. The goal has been achieved and now their focus has shifted away from you and toward their next goal.

If the two of you are still considering whether or not you should break up, you’ll have to do some self-reflecting on the position of your relationship. This question entirely depends on where your relationship is at right now. Determine what kind of goal your partner is set on, and you’ll have your answer. If you feel that your partner has been pouring themselves into you, then it will be worth staying together. As mentioned earlier, when they have a goal in mind, they will stop at nothing to achieve it. However, if you feel that they’ve been more focused on themselves, then commitment is not on their mind. They may not be considerate of your feelings and this can be very hurtful for you. If it hurts too much, then don’t torture yourself by sticking around. 

Chariot Reversed as Reconciliation

If you are asking about how someone feels about reconciling with you, and you draw the Chariot reversed it indicates that movement is blocked. The Chariot is all about moving forward, but when reversed, it means that the person feels directionless and stuck. They don’t know where to go and the idea of not knowing terrifies them. They would rather be stuck in their position forever than take any action that might negatively affect the situation. They like being in control and right now, they have zero control.

The Chariot reversed as feelings of reconciliation can mean that your partner feels lost in a chasm of their own insecurity, and they aren’t sure whether or not to get back together or move on. They also doubt themselves just as much as they doubt others. They do not feel like they have a say in what’s going on and the feeling of helplessness is too overwhelming for them. There is too much negativity and criticism around them that could have been caused by you, your relationship dynamic, or external circumstances that you have no control over.

When your person thinks about reconciliation with you, they have extremely mixed feelings. They feel that they do not want to go back to your relationship, but at the same time, they don’t want to let you go either. They are stuck and, if you aren’t careful, you’ll get stuck along with them. Just remember that you are not responsible for their choices — do not let someone monopolize your feelings just because they can’t decide on what they really want. 

If you’ve recently split up, then it’s for the better. The wound is still fresh and your partner definitely won’t be able to decide on whether they want you around or not. If you entertain them, it will just be a harmful game where, in the end, you’ll both get hurt. They may come back to you, but you shouldn’t wait around for them.

If you’ve been in separation for a while, don’t let yourself get dragged back into their chaos. They only want destruction and will destroy you in the process. Your partner can’t think straight and will be unable to confidently make a decision that they can stand by. Today, they want nothing to do with you, but tomorrow, they want you back. Their feelings are selfish in nature and they don’t have the energy to think beyond themselves.

If the two of you are still considering whether or not you should break up, it all depends on whether or not your partner is able to get themselves unstuck. They feel like they’re in a rut and it could be because of your relationship. You might have been micromanaging your partner or you might have said some overly harsh words in an argument. If this rings true, then it’s possible to fix things if you’re both able to move forward. But, if not, then it’s better to break things off. Your partner is on the path of destruction, don’t let yourself get destroyed in the process.

Conclusion

For relationships and reconciliation, The Chariot can often be a tough card to swallow, because so often it says what we do not want a reading to say. However, there is good in every card. You can find the good in the Chariot by channeling its confidence and self-love into your own life. This energy can go in a very positive direction if you let it. Let it make you stronger, faster, and more dazzling in your own gorgeous attractiveness. 

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