Death as Love Outcome (Upright & Reversed) Tarot Card Meaning

Death is the card of transformation, change, and rebirth. Although it has a bad reputation (made worse by B-horror movies), Death is actually one of the most positive cards in the Tarot! Death sits upright on his horse, ushering in a new era. Without winter, there is no spring. Death is the other side of life, making rebirth possible. 

Death reminds us to let go of what is not serving us. When we let go of what is no longer healthy, we open ourselves to positivity and possibility. When one door closes, another opens. Similarly, Death signals that a major phase in your life is ending, but another is starting. When we lean into its energy, we can let go of the past and focus on our present and our future. 

Upright Death as Love Outcome

If you are asking about what is the outcome of a relationship, and you draw Death, that means that your person feels welcoming of change. Most of us don’t like change, but sometimes it’s necessary. This is a very positive card to draw if you’re looking forward to a new phase in your relationship. If you’ve had a huge disagreement about something fundamental like values, they’ve accepted that a shift needs to happen. This could be an acceptance that you’re not compatible with each other and you should both seek happiness elsewhere. Or, if they’re open to making compromises to make the relationship work, this could represent an “ego death.”

Death as love outcome is a sign of transformation. No matter how this relationship ends or where it goes, you will grow and maybe even change from it. You may learn something new, discover a side of yourself, or experience new things. Or, alternatively, they could teach you how to set boundaries and understand what you need and want out of relationships. This is one of the more esoteric cards of the Tarot. When you see this card expect this relationship to contribute to your spiritual growth.

If you are wondering about a potential relationship, Death as love outcome means an intense relationship. This card is astrologically associated with Scorpio, the sign of secrets, mystery, mysticism, shared resources, power, the taboo, and sexuality. If you’ve always wanted to try something new and taboo, you may just have found the right person to do it. With its astrological association with the 8th House, you could be a power couple. You could create and build more wealth as a team than individually. This relationship can empower you.

If you are in a new relationship, Death as love outcome means your relationship is entering into a “new era.” Your person’s feelings are changing. They feel like meeting you has been a transformative experience for them. You’ve helped them shed old behavioral patterns of thinking, and maybe even some bad habits. They’re freed of old baggage, thanks to you. Maybe you helped them believe in love again – after all, this is the card of rebirth. This could also indicate you unlocking a secret side of them they’ve never felt comfortable being open about with anyone else. You are their safe space. Honor their trust.

If you are in an existing relationship, Death as love outcome means your person is ready for a big transformation. Whether this is a dissolution of the relationship or solidifying to a higher level of commitment, this will be major. If you feel like you’ve been stuck in endless cycles of an unhealthy dynamic in your relationship, this will come as a relief. The Death card carries the energy of the Phoenix Rising. If you both want to work on the relationship, you’ll have to make some adjustments. You’ll both come out of this with a stronger, deeper, and healthier bond.

If you are currently in separation with each other, Death as love outcome means different things depending on whether you’re separated by distance or if you’re inquiring about an ex. If you’re wondering how an ex might feel about you, they’ve accepted the ending. Reconciliation is possible, but there would have to be some major transformations for that to happen. If you’re separated by distance, your person feels intensely and they can’t wait to be near you. They think about you obsessively when you’re not around. They hope your long-distance situation can change. They’re practically begging for change.

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Reversed Death as Love Outcome

If you are asking about what is the outcome of a relationship, and you draw Death reversed, that means that your person has a strong resistance to change. The reason for their resistance might be fundamental values they were conditioned to believe in. They could simply be stubborn. Or, alternatively, this could also mean your person has control issues. This card is astrologically associated with Scorpio and unfortunately the darker side of Scorpio is possessiveness and jealousy. They may feel uncomfortable when they’re not the one wielding the power or in control.

Death reversed as love outcome is a sign of the darker sides of intensity. Be mindful of obsession and possessiveness. This card in the reverse may also warn against codependency. You may be clinging onto a relationship that is past its expiration date. Are you simply staying because you’re afraid of being alone? Don’t let your fear rule your relationship. Relationships should be motivated by love. Think of all the opportunities for love and happiness you might be missing out on by staying in a situation that no longer works..

If you are wondering about a potential relationship, Death reversed as love outcome means your power dynamic can become an issue. Where drawing this card in the upright can empower you financially as one half of a power couple, in the reverse it’s the opposite energy. Be careful that you don’t become financially dependent on your partner. The Death card in reverse can represent lack of change, lack of movement, feeling stuck. It warns against being put in a gilded cage. If you like your independence, these are some things you might want to watch out for.

If you are in a new relationship, Death reversed as love outcome means there are unhealthy power dynamics from the get-go. The darker side of Scorpionic energy is obsession, jealousy, and possessiveness.  Your person may resort to manipulative tactics if they have control issues. It could be that you’re sticking around because you have self-esteem issues, unhealed wounds, or even a savior complex that needs to be healed. Ask yourself why you’re putting up with this. You deserve better!

If you are in an existing relationship, Death reversed as love outcome means a codependent relationship. You’re not together for the right reasons. Another possibility is that your shared resources are causing complications in this relationship. Perhaps you’ve started a business or purchased property together. At some point, you have to rip off the bandaid. If you’re wondering if the feelings are still there, there’s probably not much left. The Death card reversed can go into two extremes: obsessive codependency or equally ready to let go.

If you are currently in separation with each other, Death reversed as love outcome means feeling stuck in a cycle and not knowing what to do about it. If you’re wondering how your long-distance partner feels, they feel like they’re struggling to move the relationship forward. They want to be closer to you, but they feel stuck by circumstances. At the same time, they don’t want to let you go. If you’re inquiring about an ex, they feel like they’re stuck in a loop. On the one hand, they can’t move on. On the other hand, they’re second guessing whether they should try to reconcile with you. They’re not in the mindset of growth, which is required for your relationship to be a healthy one. 

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Conclusion

For love readings, Death reveals the power of transformative change. For the end of every cycle comes the beginning of another. In order to grow, we must shed beliefs and behaviors that are no longer serving us. Death can mean the literal end of a relationship. Equally, it can mean the end of one phase in your relationship and beginning of another. There is no life without Death. Embrace the transformative energy of this card to feel radically empowered. 

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