Judgement as Reconciliation (Upright & Reversed) Tarot Card Meaning

Judgement is the card of purpose, awakening, renewal, and reckoning. This card is about turning points, and it depicts people rising up to the angel Gabriel’s call. They are finding their calling, and they are reaching their purpose in life. This is also a card of karma. Their outstretched arms show that they are ready to meet their judgement and see where the dice land for them. 

Judgement reminds us that none of us are exempt from karma. We are all subject to the forces of the Universe. If we put out negativity, we will reap what we sow. If we send out positivity, we will be paid back in kind. There will always be a reckoning and a time for self-reflection.  

Upright Judgement as Reconciliation

If you are asking about how your ex feels about reconciling with you, and you draw Judgement, it shows that your ex has been thinking about your relationship a lot, and they are considering it. Your relationship together was a turning point in their life, and it has greatly changed them as a person. They are now going through a self-reflective growth phase. This isn’t necessarily a bad thing, it just means that they’re really taking each experience to heart, and they are considering all of their options before settling on a decision. 

Judgement as reconciliation can signify a strong “maybe”. There were issues in your past that were ignored, but they are now being brought to light. Things that were brushed off before can no longer be ignored. Again, it’s not a negative thing, and it’s not meant to encourage confrontation. It’s here to encourage self-reflection instead. Your ex is trying to find their way forward. If their way leads back to you, it was meant to be, but if it doesn’t, then that is also the Universe’s decision. 

When your ex thinks about reconciliation with you, they aren’t sure yet, but they are definitely considering it. Your ex is really taking this time to sit down and weigh in the pros and cons of your relationship. They aren’t just focusing on the positives or the negatives, but they are looking at the whole picture. They acknowledge all the positive changes you’ve brought about in their life. You’ve influenced how they think about love, relationships, and life, and they respect that. 

If you’ve recently split up, give them the time they need, but don’t hold your breath. Again, they may reach out to you, but they also may not. Your relationship was life-changing for them, and they wouldn’t be who they are today if it weren’t for you. Just give them time to really digest and self-reflect before making any rash decisions.

If you’ve been in separation for a while, you may hear from them. They are still in their self-reflective mood and it doesn’t seem to be changing anytime soon. Your relationship and breakup awakened something in them and they are trying to grow and find their way. They may still come back to you, but it will take some time.

If the two of you are still considering whether or not you should break up, Judgement means that you should stick around. Your relationship is just in its growth phase, which is completely normal. It’s good to talk about important issues and problems that you’ve been ignoring up to this point. There are just some things that need to be worked out right now. Once you two are able to smooth out your issues, your relationship will be well on its way to being a very healthy one. Your partner is very open to communication and is willing to try anything so you two can settle on a comfortable compromise, so be sure to air everything out!

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Reversed Judgement as Reconciliation

If you are asking about how your ex feels about reconciling with you, and you draw Judgement reversed it means that your ex is not feeling self-reflective about it at all. They’d rather yell at everyone else around them and place the blame on someone else rather than consider what they might have done wrong. In their heads, nothing is ever their fault. Currently, they are very critical of you and your past relationship, and they are dissecting everything that went wrong. 

A person like this will find it hard to compromise, even when it’s absolutely needed. They are living in their head and it can be very damaging. This is a sign that your ex needs to open their eyes and learn to make decisions objectively. They need clarity. Otherwise, they will never be able to grow as a person.

Judgement as feelings of reconciliation signifies your ex’s negative mindset. They can only see the negatives in your relationship, and believe that they had no part in anything that went wrong. You’ve brought about many positive changes in their life, but they can’t see any of that. They are taking a close-minded view of the situation. Reconciliation may be possible, but only if your ex decides to finally wake up, own up to their past mistakes, and let go of their negativity. 

When your ex thinks about reconciliation with you, they are in denial of their own mistakes. They know that there is something in your relationship that wasn’t clicking, but will never admit that it might have been their fault. They do want your relationship to work out. However, they aren’t willing to put in the effort it takes to try and fix it. There might be something that you can do to change their mind, but it’s possible that they won’t listen to you either. All of their issues with self-reflection stem from themselves, and there’s only so much you can say or do to help them.

If you’ve recently split up, your ex is being overly analytical of everything that went wrong. They are reliving the negative moments of your relationship. They understand that there were things that went wrong, and those things led to the end of the relationship. However, they truly believe that it wasn’t their fault, and they did not contribute to any of the mistakes in your relationship. They cannot or refuse to see any of the good you’ve done. Reconciliation is possible, but it is very unlikely to work out in the long run. 

If you’ve been in separation for a while, it’s time for you to move on. Your ex feels like there’s no point in taking the first step to winning you back. They still think of you negatively. Because they are very stubborn, nothing will work to try to convince them otherwise. Even if they were interested in reconciliation, there is no guarantee that you would be able to change their mindset away from blaming and criticizing everyone other than themselves. 

If the two of you are still considering whether or not you should break up, it’s time to make stronger attempts to open your partner’s eyes. But, if it’s getting too much, then it’s time to pack your bags. You deserve an equal partner in your relationship, not just someone who blames you for everything. Your partner needs to learn to be honest with themself, or your relationship is going to go south very quickly. Your partner is very judgmental, and they will always jump at the chance to blame everyone else but themselves. Remember that you deserve someone who can communicate well and is mature enough to admit when they are wrong. 

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Conclusion

For relationships and reconciliation, Judgement represents a turning point and the potential for awakening. All relationships go through turning points at one point or another. Whether upright or reversed, Judgement reminds us that we all will be faced with important decisions in life. The decisions that we make will have a profound effect on our lives. This is a time for you to do some self reflection and find the purpose of your relationship.

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