King of Wands as Feelings in Love & Relationships (Upright & Reversed)

The King of Wands is the card of leadership, vision, boldness, and decisiveness. The card depicts a king on his throne, holding a wand as his scepter. He looks out into the distance towards his kingdom. He has a vision for his empire, and he is ready to make decisions to expand it. He is full of relentless optimism for the future.  

The King of Wands is the zenith of the suit of wands. The King of Wands reminds us that it is important to have a bold vision for your relationships, and to be decisive in your decision making. When you know yourself deeply, you will know what the right choice is. You won’t hesitate, because you will be perfectly aligned with your authentic self. 

Upright King of Wands as Feelings

If you are asking about how someone feels about you and you draw the King of Wands, it means that this person loves you passionately. They are excited by you and your relationship together, but not in a shallow way. Their excitement stems from deep love for you and a clear vision for your future. This person knows what they want and how to get it. They know that they see you in their ideal future.

This person may also be feeling generous with you. This person may have a hot temper sometimes, but they are also quick to forgive and forget. At the end of the day, this person loves you deeply. They know that what you have between you runs deep and true. 

For singles and those embarking on new relationships, the King of Wands means that this person’s feelings are positive and coming from a very mature place. This person is seasoned, and their experience is a good thing. They know what they want, and they want you. This person does not have short-term intentions for you. They can see you fitting into their long-term future. This bodes well for any potential relationship. 

For existing relationships, the King of Wands indicates that this person feels that your relationship is at a very happy place right now. They feel deeply in love with you. Though you have your disagreements from time to time, they know that their passion for you runs deep. Sure, they may start a fight now and then, but they are quick to forgive and forget. They have a vision for how they can take your relationship to the next level. 

If you are asking about an old flame or an ex’s feelings about you, the King of Wands indicates that your ex is thinking about you and has a plan to get you back. They can’t see themselves living their lives without you. Their passion for you runs deep. If you are looking to reconcile, this is a great sign. 

In the context of whether or not a relationship is headed for commitment, engagement, or marriage, the King of Wands is an excellent omen. Your partner loves you deeply, and they are very committed to the relationship. Their passion for you bubbles up from their very being. They have a clear vision for your future, and they are willing to act decisively to make it happen. They are ready to take their relationship with you to the next level.  

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Reversed King of Wands as Feelings

When the King of Wands is reversed, it means that this person is feeling coerced by you. They don’t feel free to do what they want. They feel pressured to act a certain way and to make certain decisions. They feel stressed about this, because they are scared that they cannot conform to your expectations. You may think that you are doing the right thing by pushing others to be their best self, but you must remember that each person is an individual. True change can only come when it is wanted by the other person from within. 

A reversed King of Wands can also indicate that this person feels lost. They do not have a strong vision for their life and their future. They are content with the mundane details of the day-to-day. They don’t like thinking further than this very moment. They are not in the place right now to think long term. 

For singles and those in new relationships, the King of Wands reversed is a sign of feeling stressed out by the pressure of commitment. This person does not know what they want for the long term. They are content with the here and now. They like floating from thing to thing and experiencing the newness of each moment. Their approach is not necessarily right or wrong, but it may not be a good fit for you if you are looking for a long-term relationship. 

For those in committed relationships, the King of Wands reversed is a sign of feeling like they’ve lost sight of the overall vision of your relationship. They may be feeling pressured to be someone because that is what you want. They are feeling like it’s hard to be authentic. They may also be scared of the future. Without a clear vision, they don’t know what they want. To correct the course, you must sit down and have an honest conversation about your needs. It can work out, or you might decide that your needs are too different to go on.  

If you are asking about an ex’s feelings about you, the King of Wands reversed means that they are feeling lost in their general life direction. They do not know what kind of relationship they want. They are in a time of wandering right now, and they need to take that time for themselves to figure out who they are and what they want. If you are asking about reconciliation, it will only be possible once this person has gone through their self-journey. 

In the context of whether or not a relationship is headed for commitment, engagement, or marriage, the King of Wands reversed means that they are lacking a strong vision and roadmap for your future. This can be for myriad reasons, but ultimately, this person needs to find their vision before they can commit this relationship to the next level. Communicate with each other to figure out what they need.  

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Conclusion

For relationships and feelings, the King of Wands represents having a bold vision and being decisive in your actions. The King of Wands is the consummate CEO, always guiding the boat forwards. The King of Wands reminds us that we each need to be leaders in our relationships. Co-lead the relationship with your partner, and you will find success together. 

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