Moon as Reconciliation (Upright & Reversed) Tarot Card Meaning

The Moon is the card of illusion, fear, anxiety, deception, intuition, and the subconscious. The card depicts a full moon in the night sky, positioned between two large towers. The moon is a symbol of intuition, dreams, and the unconscious. Compared to its counterpart the sun, the moon’s light is dim and only slightly illuminates the night. 

The Moon reminds us that every light has a shadow. Not everything in life is clear cut. Relationships will always have ambiguity to some extent. The Moon reminds us to tune into and listen to our intuition. Before our mind knows, we know. Especially when it comes to relationships, listen to your inner voice.  

Upright Moon as Reconciliation

If you are asking about how someone feels about reconciling with you, and you draw the Moon, it means that they aren’t quite sure about reconciliation right now. They don’t know how they feel about you. Their head feels foggy when they think about you. There is a lack of clarity here, which is ripe for misunderstandings. The lack of direction in your past relationship has carried over to the present, and this is a confusing sign if you were hoping for reconciliation.

The Moon also signifies that the lack of clarity extends past your relationship. It’s possible that your ex has some baggage deep in their subconscious that they never got around to unpacking which affects their ability to accept love. They may believe that they are unworthy of love, or they had a traumatic experience from one of their past relationships. 

The Moon as reconciliation signifies just how muddy your ex’s feelings for you are. They remember you and your relationship fondly, and they see you in a positive light. However, they also harbor negative emotions over the way your relationship ended. Their feelings are very complicated at the moment. They are in the dark, and unless they’re able to find the light and let it guide them, they will never truly be able to love another again. 

When your person thinks about reconciliation with you, they are very unsure. They need time to make up their mind about you. Additionally, they need to also take some time to get to the bottom of things. Until they’re able to work on themselves and reconstruct their beliefs on love and unpack their baggage, reconciliation isn’t a good idea.

If you’ve recently split up, just give your ex some space. Reconciliation is possible, but it’s probably not going to happen anytime soon. This is one of those moments where your ex needs to put themselves first. It’s important that they confront their issues alone. They need to find clarity within themselves before trying to find clarity in your relationship.

If you’ve been in separation for a while, cut your ex some slack. They are still haunted by beliefs that they aren’t worthy of affection and that no one will ever truly love them. Don’t hold your breath for them as there is no saying for sure if they will be seeking reconciliation. There’s just too much fog in their mind right now. 

If the two of you are still considering whether or not you should break up, the Moon is a sign for you two to open up to each other and serve as each other’s guiding light. There’s a lot of fog in your relationship, whether it’s from past relationship baggage, or because you learned the wrong lessons in life. They still love you — they just aren’t so sure anymore. There are a lot of ups and downs right now, and until you are both able to confront the issues together, then your relationship will continue to get foggier and foggier. If you want to stay together, you both need to recenter your relationship and clear any misunderstandings. 

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Reversed Moon as Reconciliation

If you are asking about how someone feels about reconciling with you, and you draw the Moon reversed, it signifies extreme confusion. Not just about your relationship or how they feel, but just about their life in general. They don’t know what they want, and it feels like they’re constantly spinning out of control and don’t know how to recenter themselves. 

The Moon reversed can also be a sign of deception, of being kept in the dark. They didn’t feel like they could be honest with you. It’s possible that your actions caused them to act this way, but ultimately, this stems from their own beliefs. However, this may not be coming with malicious intent. They could be hiding something from you because they want to protect your feelings or because they are being empathetic. In the end, though, hiding the truth from anyone is unhealthy and they need to overcome this before moving forward. Their inability to be honest with you, and themselves, has been taking a toll on them and their mental health. 

The Moon reversed as reconciliation can mean that your past relationship was built on lies and deception. Your ex wasn’t honest with you about something because, for whatever reason, your ex just didn’t feel like your relationship was going to last long anyway. There was a lack of trust between the two of you and they don’t know what to do to remedy this.

When your person thinks about reconciliation with you, they feel like they were duped. There was just a lot of confusion and deception that surrounded your relationship and it still follows them to this day. They are upset over the way things ended between you two and things are unclear for them. Your ex also isn’t in the right headspace to consider reconciliation with you. They need to find their own way and find clarity before they can think about anyone else. 

If you’ve recently split up, then it’s time to take a step back. Reconciliation isn’t on the table for either of you right now because of the state your relationship was in. It didn’t end well, and when your ex thinks about you they just feel confused. There were too many secrets and a lack of faith in your relationship, and it’s too difficult for them to move on right now.

If you’ve been in separation for a while, your ex is still feeling unwell. Your breakup really took a toll on them, psychologically, and they are still struggling to find clarity. Their mental state needs to come first so just let them find their way while you move on as well. Your relationship wasn’t built on healthy grounds and it’s better to move on than go back to that, even if reconciliation is probably not happening.

If the two of you are still considering whether or not you should break up, then the Moon reversed is a sign to reflect on your relationship and expose any deception. Hiding the truth, whether it’s on your part or theirs, is not a healthy long-term solution. If you want to keep this relationship going, then it’s vital that you both open your communication with each other and admit what you’ve been hiding. Be sure to understand where your partner is coming from and listen to what they have to say, and they will do the same for you. Be honest with each other. In the end, the Moon reversed signifies deception so just always remember, that actions speak louder than words.

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Conclusion

For relationships and reconciliation, the Moon reveals the darker side of lust and desire. In the shadows of a relationship, deception and misunderstandings lie. What is hiding underneath the surface? The Moon serves as a warning sign, urging us to identify and bring the issues out of the dark and into broad daylight. What hides in your own unconscious, affecting your ability to accept love? The Moon is also a sign to listen to your intuition. When your intuition tells you that something is not quite right, listen to it! Tune into your deepest self. 

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