Nine of Pentacles as Feelings Tarot Card Meaning Sibyl Tarot

The Nine of Pentacles is the card of success, achievement, rewarded efforts, independence, security, and leisure. This card shows a wealthy woman, dressed in luxurious clothes, walking around her garden while holding a falcon on her arm. The vines behind her are heavy with grapes and golden pentacles, emphasizing her accomplishments and wealth. 

The Nine of Pentacles reminds us that having a mindset of abundance is key to a healthy relationship. We can’t give to others what we do not have ourselves. When we are independently happy, we can share that happiness with others. Even when we are partnered with someone, it’s important to maintain some independence.   

Upright Nine of Pentacles as Feelings

If you are asking about how someone feels about you and you draw the Nine of Pentacles, it means that this person is feeling secure and happy. They feel that they have everything that they need, and they have everything in abundance. They are happy with the relationship because it contributes to their happiness and takes nothing away. 

This person is also feeling that you cherish their independence. They see that you have a healthy mix of independence and love between the two of you. You are flourishing as a couple and as individuals. They appreciate this deeply, and they are truly grateful for what you have together. 

For singles and those embarking on new relationships, the Nine of Pentacles means that this person’s feelings towards you are very positive. They are mesmerized by your independence. They feel that they can be themselves in the relationship. While the two of you can grow and thrive together, they are not worried about losing part of themselves in the relationship. They appreciate this deeply, and they are excited to see where your relationship goes from here. 

For existing relationships, the Nine of Pentacles indicates that this person feels secure and happy in your relationship. They feel that the relationship has brought them so much abundance in their life. They feel that the two of you are able to thrive not just together, but also as individuals. They feel secure with you, and they are excited to see where your relationship can go in the future. This is a great sign, especially if you are looking to take your relationship to the next level. 

If you are asking about an old flame or an ex’s feelings about you, the Nine of Pentacles indicates that they are feeling independent. While they look back at the relationship fondly, they are happy being single right now. They are not in a rush to make a change. If you are wondering about reconciliation or getting back together, this is a sign that your ex is not ready yet right now. 

In the context of whether or not a relationship is headed for commitment, engagement, or marriage, the Nine of Pentacles is a sign that your partner will definitely consider it. Your partner feels secure and happy when they are with you. They feel that you are successful as a couple without losing your individuality. They are open to talking about the next step of commitment with you.  

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Reversed Nine of Pentacles as Feelings

When the Nine of Pentacles is reversed, it means that this person feels that although they seem to have everything in front of them, there is something inside them that still feels like something is missing. Some of this may be unconscious. This person may fear losing their independence. They may also fear sharing their life and most vulnerable feelings with someone who doesn’t love them for who they are, but rather, what they have materially.

This person may also feel that they are losing some of their independence within the relationship. They need to address their fears, so that they can experience love without fear. However, if there is some truth behind their feelings, remember that it’s healthy for them to do some things individually as well. 

For singles and those in new relationships, the Nine of Pentacles reversed is a sign of feeling like something is missing. Though this person has everything they need in front of them, they are dealing with some insecurity. They may subconsciously fear losing their independence if they fully commit to the relationship. They are scared of sharing their true feelings with you, because they are afraid to be vulnerable. This is something that they will have to come to terms with if they want the relationship to move forward. 

For those in committed relationships, the Nine of Pentacles reversed is a sign of feeling like your relationship is missing something. They realize that from the outside, everything looks perfectly fine. They seem to have everything. But part of them is still insecure and scared. They fear that they are losing their independence in the relationship. This can be based in reality, if you are overly clingy. Or, it can be them projecting their fears on you. Either way, it is something that you will need to address openly and honestly in order to move the relationship forward. 

If you are asking about an ex’s feelings about you, the Nine of Pentacles reversed means that they are still hung up on you. Although they seem to have everything, there is still something missing in their heart. However, their feelings are conflicted. They are scared that if they commit to a relationship, they will lose their independence. They are conflicted about reconciliation and getting back together for that reason as well. It is something that the two of you will have to work out together. 

In the context of whether or not a relationship is headed for commitment, engagement, or marriage, the Nine of Pentacles reversed means that they are feeling like even though everything seems like it should move forward, they are scared to take the final step. They are scared of losing their independence if they make what feels like a final commitment. This fear is something that they will have to address, because it may have nothing to do with you. It could stem from their own insecurities.

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Conclusion

For relationships and feelings, the Nine of Pentacles represents abundance and independence. When two people come together in a relationship, it’s still important for each person to maintain some of their independence and individuality. This card is a reminder that two healthy individuals can form a greater whole in a partnership. 

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