Queen of Cups as Reconciliation (Upright & Reversed) Tarot Card Meaning

The Queen of Cups is the card of compassion, warmth, kindness, and healing. This card shows a beautiful, introspective woman sitting on a throne at the edge of the sea. She is holding a cup before her. She looks at the cup, deep in thought. Her emotions come from deep within her. She trusts fully in her intuition. 

The Queen of Cups reminds us that we all need the deep, nurturing, and compassionate love that this queen has to offer. It is a love that is almost maternal in nature. It is warm, kind, and healing. It is supportive of us, and it honors our authentic self. The Queen of Cups reminds us of the love that we want to give to the people we care about the most.

Upright Queen of Cups as Reconciliation

If you are asking about how your ex feels about reconciling with you, and you draw the Queen of Cups, it means that they miss you. They cherish what you shared together, and the fact that you aren’t by their side anymore makes them sad. They deeply care about you and are ready to support you in whatever you do. They would, quite literally, do anything for you. 

Queen of Cups as reconciliation is a sign of regret. They regret breaking up with you, and they are almost moved to tears every time they think about you. They miss you and the bond you shared. They’ve realized that you were such a strong foundation of love and support for them, and now that you’re gone, there’s just a hole where you used to be. When they remember you, they are filled with warm feelings of love and compassion. You were so good to them, and they want you back.

When your ex thinks about reconciliation with you, they feel ready to try again, and this time, they are ready to meet all of your needs. They only want the best for you, and they are willing to push themselves and go the extra mile just to make you happy. They are constantly pushing themselves to be the best version of themselves, so they can be the best partner for you. 

If you’ve recently split up, Queen of Cups means that sometimes, they get a little lost in their feelings. The hurt of your split still lingers, and they want it to go away. However, moving on from you isn’t really on their mind, so the only way to make the hurt go away is by coming back to you. Expect your ex to reach out very soon. 

If you’ve been in separation for a while, Queen of Cups means that your ex misses you so much that they can’t bear it. This is such a good card for reconciliation because it signifies just how much your ex still cares for and loves you. Reconciliation is going to come any moment now, and your relationship is going to be even better than it once was.

If the two of you are still considering whether or not you should break up, Queen of Cups means that you should not do it! Whatever’s bothering you, just let your partner know, and they will do whatever they can to fix it. If you asked your partner to give you all the stars in the night sky, they would. This person is madly in love with you, and they are so happy with you. Your relationship couldn’t be in a better place than where it is right now.

Reversed Queen of Cups as Reconciliation

If you are asking about how your ex feels about reconciling with you, and you draw the Queen of Cups reversed, it means that they aren’t over you. There was an imbalance in your relationship, there was one of you who was definitely more into it than the other, almost so much so that it was suffocating. One of you was more clingy in the relationship than the other, and not in a cute way. Whoever it was, felt that they would literally lay down and die if the other wasn’t around them. It was an extremely toxic environment for both of you to be in.

Queen of Cups reversed as reconciliation is a sign of frustration. Your ex understands that there was an imbalance in the relationship, that one of you was putting in more effort than the other. There was a lot of tension in your relationship. At least one of you felt like you were constantly walking on eggshells. There were a lot of pent up and unaddressed emotions in your relationship. This caused a build-up of stress and tension, which eventually caused the thin thread binding you together to snap.

When your ex thinks about reconciliation with you, they feel like they want you back. Even though your relationship was unhealthy, they still want to go for it. It seems like your ex was the clingy one in the relationship. They think about you constantly, and not in a good way. They are being almost obsessive. However, don’t take this too negatively. Your ex has good intentions, they just don’t know how to positively and healthily project it. 

If you’ve recently split up, Queen of Cups reversed means that they will definitely be reaching out to you soon. They understand that they need room to grow as an individual, but being so far away from you is really getting to them. They can’t do it alone. They desperately want you back, but be careful. They haven’t put in any work to better themselves yet. If you accept them back into your life, you may be getting the same person they once were.

If you’ve been in separation for a while, Queen of Cups reversed means that they don’t want to move on, they can’t. They definitely want you back, but if you’re going to accept them back into your life and pursue a relationship with them once again, then be careful. They still haven’t healed their most toxic tendencies. The only way for your relationship to truly be happy and healthy is if they are able to resolve their issues.

If the two of you are still considering whether or not you should break up, Queen of Cups reversed means that your relationship isn’t in a very good state right now. You are probably feeling like you are walking on eggshells because of all the tension between you two. Sit down with your partner and address the imbalance. Rebalancing your relationship is the only way for things to work out. But, once you’re able to fix this problem, your relationship will right itself, and you’ll both be happy again.

Conclusion

For relationships and reconciliation, the Queen of Cups represents compassion, loving kindness, and emotional support. There is wholeness, harmony, and a sense of belonging here. The nurturing and complete love of the Queen of Cups is amazing, and it is something we should strive to show our partners in any relationship. 

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