Queen of Pentacles as Reconciliation (Upright & Reversed) Tarot Card Meaning

The Queen of Pentacles is the card of generosity, caring, nurture, practicality, comfort, and luxury. This card shows a beautiful queen sitting at her throne, surrounded by nature, animals, and a lush field of flowers and trees. She holds a single pentacle in her hands, looking down at it with a nurturing eye. Abundance is all around her.

The Queen of Pentacles reminds us that being nurturing and generous is important to developing a strong relationship. When we show our partner that we truly care about their wellbeing and want to look after their needs, they will be touched. They will naturally want to do the same for us. 

Upright Queen of Pentacles as Reconciliation

If you are asking about how your ex feels about reconciling with you, and you draw the Queen of Pentacles, it means that your ex still loves you deeply. They are extremely nurturing by nature, and they will always try to spoil you. They want nothing more than your happiness, even if that means you can’t be together anymore. This person will go to great lengths to ensure that you are happy and comfortable.

Queen of Pentacles as reconciliation is a sign of indulgence. During your time together, your ex always tried to shower you with love, affection, gifts, and everything that you wanted. If you mentioned that you were craving sushi,  they would show up at your doorstep with the best sushi in town. They appreciate you, for you. They know that you have flaws, but they don’t care about them. You are an amazing match for this person as you meet all of their high expectations and then some.

When your ex thinks about reconciliation with you, they feel positive. You were an amazing partner, and your ex is now realizing that. They’ve always supported you in everything you’ve done, and you did the same for them. You were exactly what they needed and they know this now. Your relationship was a happy one, and they regret losing you. They still love you, that’s for sure, and they are definitely thinking about reconciling with you.

If you’ve recently split up, Queen of Pentacles means that your ex needed this time apart. This was a great wake-up call for them to open their eyes and realize how much of a gem you are. They love you so much, and they want you to be happy, no matter what. They will be reaching out soon. It’s up to you whether or not you want to welcome them back into your life. 

If you’ve been in separation for a while, Queen of Pentacles means that your ex wants you back. They’ve taken this time to reflect on who they are, what they want, and more. They know what they’re missing in their life — you. However, should you reject them, they will accept your decision and quietly walk away. After all, this person just wants you to be happy. This is someone who truly cares about you and your wellbeing. They aren’t afraid to place your needs above their own.

If the two of you are still considering whether or not you should break up, Queen of Pentacles means that your partner sees you in high regard. They love you, almost more than they love themselves. They are generous, understanding, and kind. If there are any issues, open up to your partner, and they will immediately see to it that your needs are met. This is an amazing person to be in a relationship with! Don’t give them up.

Reversed Queen of Pentacles as Reconciliation

If you are asking about how your ex feels about reconciling with you, and you draw the Queen of Pentacles reversed, it means that your ex is very jealous. They were always insecure, and they were worried that you would leave them at any moment. Now that you’ve split up, they feel that all their fears have come true. They are in a really dark place right now, but don’t blame yourself for it. 

Queen of Pentacles reversed as reconciliation is a sign of negativity. This is a person who focuses on the negatives, even when there are countless positives in front of them. It’s also possible that they approached your relationship for selfish reasons. Your ex may have pursued you because of the status, the money, or maybe even because they’re afraid to be lonely. Your ex has a lot of unresolved personal issues that they need to sort out before attempting to get into another relationship.

When your ex thinks about reconciliation with you, they feel needy. They are worried that you will never come back to them. They are jealous of other people who have your attention and it also makes them even more insecure. They are focusing on what they do not have, and it’s messing with their head. They aren’t inherently a bad person per se, but they are currently in the wrong mindset. They will probably be coming back to you and seeking reconciliation, but you must be careful. 

If you’ve recently split up, Queen of Pentacles reversed means that your ex will do everything they can to make you take them back. They are afraid of being alone, and they hate not being in a relationship. However, they still aren’t fully capable of giving and receiving love, since everything they do comes from a place of insecurity. If they do come back, be warned. There’s a good chance that they haven’t changed, and you will find yourselves confronted by the same problems as before. 

If you’ve been in separation for a while, Queen of Pentacles reversed means that your ex really needs professional help. If you know what’s good for you then you won’t take them back unless they’ve changed or are constantly working to improve themself. Time apart has only fueled their negativity more, and it is making them even more self-destructive. Getting back together now won’t make for a healthy relationship for either of you.

If the two of you are still considering whether or not you should break up, Queen of Pentacles reversed means that your partner is in need of some serious help. Remember, you are not their therapist, and it should not be your job to ‘fix’ them. If you find that your partner has been excessively jealous and insecure, so much to the point that it’s negatively affecting you, it’s better to recommend them to a professional and get out of there. Your partner is only using your relationship for superficial reasons, and you shouldn’t allow yourself to be used like this.

Conclusion

For relationships and reconciliation, the Queen of Pentacles represents generosity and comfort. Every person needs to be emotionally nurtured and loved. Giving to others opens their heart and allows them to thrive. This is found in every successful relationship, where each individual can bloom and grow. 

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