Queen of Wands as Feelings in Love & Relationships (Upright & Reversed)

The Queen of Wands is the card of confidence, passion, determination, charisma, and optimism. This card shows a vivacious woman sitting on a throne. She has a proud look about her. She holds a sunflower in her left hand and a wand in the other. She knows what she wants and she gets it. The black cat sitting at her feet indicates her more intuitive, shadow side. She is in touch with all aspects of herself. 

The Queen of Wands reminds us that confidence and passion will lead us to where we want in life. When we stay optimistic, good things will manifest their way to us. There is a perfect someone out there for you in the Universe. Never forget that you deserve to be treated like royalty. 

Upright Queen of Wands as Feelings

If you are asking about how someone feels about you and you draw the Queen of Wands, it means that this person is feeling loved by you. They feel refreshed by your confident approach to love. They admire you deeply, and they feel inspired by you. When they are with you, they are not worried about what other people think. They can simply enjoy being themselves around you.

They also feel a very sensual attraction to you. They feel open with you, and they can talk frankly about what they desire. They feel that your intimacy is in a great place. This is a great sign for any relationship. They are proud to be with you. 

For singles and those embarking on new relationships, the Queen of Wands means that this person loves and admires you very deeply. They love how confident you are. They love being with you. They are excited to see where your relationship goes. This is a great sign for any new relationship. The passion is there. 

For existing relationships, the Queen of Wands indicates that this person feels that your relationship is at a very happy place right now. You are able to be both passionate and intimate with each other. Your relationship still has its initial spark, and that spark has only grown into a strong, burning flame over time. You are each other’s confidantes. This is a great place to be in any relationship, especially if you are thinking about taking the relationship to the next level. 

If you are asking about an old flame or an ex’s feelings about you, the Queen of Wands indicates that they still hold a torch for you. Your relationship was significant. They still think of you as their queen. They are still attracted to you. If you are asking about reconciliation, all of the potential is there. Someone just needs to light a spark.  

In the context of whether or not a relationship is headed for commitment, engagement, or marriage, the Queen of Wands is a great sign. Your person sees you as the person that they want to be with forever. They love and admire you deeply, and they feel like they can be themselves around you. They are already thinking about how to take your relationship to the next level. 

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Reversed Queen of Wands as Feelings

When the Queen of Wands is reversed, it means that this person is feeling self-centered and demanding. They are usually very self-assured, but perhaps they have taken it too far. They can get mad easily. By focusing only on themselves, that may also mean that they occasionally lose interest in you. 

This person is also having a hard time taking care of other people’s needs. They may be feeling neglected by you. Although it’s important to take care of your own needs, it’s also important to take care of the people around you. They may also be feeling neglectful of you at the moment, which leads to explosive arguments between the two of you. 

For singles and those in new relationships, the Queen of Wands reversed is a sign of feeling demanding of others. This person knows what they want, but it can come at the expense of other people’s feelings. They may feel like you are neglecting them and not meeting their needs. Whether this is rooted in reality or just a projection depends on your individual situation. You need to assess which one it is and if you still want to move forward with them. 

For those in committed relationships, the Queen of Wands reversed is a sign of feeling neglected in your relationship. Does this have a basis in reality? Or is it simply them projecting their actions onto you? Perhaps they have been the one who has been neglecting you. However, it doesn’t matter who is at fault. What matters is how you want to work together to fix this. Now is the time to sit down together and have an honest conversation about getting both of your needs met. Both of your needs are important and critical to the relationship’s success. 

If you are asking about an ex’s feelings about you, the Queen of Wands reversed means that they feel like your relationship was too demanding on them. Whether warranted or not, they feel that it was too much for them. They need a pause, a break, a time out. If you are asking about reconciliation, it can only happen after they feel that your expectations are aligned. 

In the context of whether or not a relationship is headed for commitment, engagement, or marriage, the Queen of Wands reversed means that they are feeling like you are being too demanding on them to move the relationship timeline forward. They feel like you are pressuring them to move forward on a further commitment. Remember that true commitment has to come from within.  

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Conclusion

For relationships and feelings, the Queen of Wands represents confidence, optimism, and passion. Where everyone else wants to be, you already are. The Queen of Wands is a mature woman. She has a feeling of wholeness, harmony, and belonging about her. This is where a relationship should be in the long term. 

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