Seven of Wands as Feelings Tarot Card Meaning Sibyl Tarot

The Seven of Wands is the card of protection, defense, and taking a stand for the things that matter. The card shows a man standing on a hill and being challenged by his opponents below. He is resilient and he does not give up. He is defending his position and he is giving it his all. He is taking a stand for himself.  

The Seven of Wands reminds us that there are times in life where you need to stand up for yourself and what you believe in. We are meant to defend and protect the people we care about the most. The Seven of Wands reminds us that tenacity and persistence will be rewarded. 

Upright Seven of Wands as Feelings

If you are asking about how someone feels about you and you draw the Seven of Wands, it means that this person is feeling like they are willing to fight for you. There may be others around them who are naysayers, but they truly believe that they want to be with you. They feel as if they will defend you to the ends of the earth. 

This person can also feel that they are willing to put in the work to make this relationship work. You may have had your disagreements with each other in the past. But at the end of the day, this person believes in you and they believe in your relationship. They feel confident that this is the right thing to do. They are holding onto this feeling, even when times get tough. 

For singles and those embarking on new relationships, the Seven of Wands means that this person is feeling good about you and your relationship. They can see a future with you, and they are willing to put in the work to make it happen. They may have come into conflict with other people who oppose your relationship, but they’ve always defended it. They believe in you, and they are eager to see how your relationship develops.  

For existing relationships, the Seven of Wands indicates that this person feels that your relationship is worth fighting for. You’ve had your share of disagreements and arguments in the past. But at the end of the day, this person loves you. They believe in you and your relationship. They want to make this work. If you feel the same way, now is a great time to reexamine where you stand. How can you make sure that both of you are meeting each other’s needs?

If you are asking about an old flame or an ex’s feelings about you, the Seven of Wands indicates that they still think about you and your relationship. After spending some time alone, they’ve come to the realization that they are willing to fight for it. They know that it will be tough, but that it will be worth it. If you are wondering if a reconciliation is possible, this is a positive signal. 

In the context of whether or not a relationship is headed for commitment, engagement, or marriage, the Seven of Wands indicates that your partner wants to make it work. They are willing to fight for you and the relationship. There may be some boundary issues that you need to discuss with each other. Once you both feel like you’re at a good place with aligned values and goals, moving forward will be natural.

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Reversed Seven of Wands as Feelings

When the Seven of Wands is reversed, it means that this person is feeling defensive. They may even be in denial. They aren’t able to see the situation clearly, and they want to blame everyone except themselves for the problem. They feel like they are doing all that they can do, but because their goals are not clear, they are not effective. 

They may also feel that your relationship is on shaky ground, and they are not sure how to proceed. They feel frustrated because they feel like they have tried. They feel like they have made efforts, but those efforts were either ignored or not effective. They may even feel like a victim.

For singles and those in new relationships, the Seven of Wands reversed is a sign of feeling defensive and frustrated. They feel like things are getting off to a shaky start, and they aren’t sure what to do about it. Rather than take initiative to improve the situation or communicate, they want to lie back and have success handed to them. This will only improve if they decide to take a more open and humble approach to the situation.

For those in committed relationships, the Seven of Wands reversed is a sign of feeling like your relationship is on shaky ground. Your partner feels defensive and frustrated. They feel like they have made efforts to fix things, but it hasn’t been working. They aren’t sure what to do, and they are on the verge of giving up. Ask yourself if you have contributed to the situation in some way, or if they simply are taking a victim mentality to the whole situation. If it is the latter, they will not change unless they want to change. 

If you are asking about an ex’s feelings about you, the Seven of Wands reversed means that they feel frustrated about how things ended. They may be blaming you for the end of the relationship, without thinking about their own contributions to the problem. They are in denial about the role they played. They feel stuck, not ready to let go, not ready to move on. If you are asking about whether or not reconciliation is a possibility, this card shows that true reconciliation is only possible when they stop taking such a defensive approach.  

In the context of whether or not a relationship is headed for commitment, engagement, or marriage, the Seven of Wands reversed means that they are feeling frustrated and defensive about the situation. They prefer to avoid the topic altogether, and they hope that by avoiding it, you will stop asking them about it. They have their head stuck in the sand. In this case, you will need to be clear about where your boundaries and limits are in the relationship. If you cannot live with this behavior, then you need to make it clear what you will and won’t accept. They will only move forward when they choose to take a more positive approach to you and the relationship.

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Conclusion

For relationships and feelings, the Seven of Wands represents boundaries and fighting for what you believe in. There are times in life where you should not give up, because the people you love are worth fighting for. The Seven of Wands reminds us that boundaries and limits are key to every successful relationship, and communication is needed. 

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