Seven of Wands as Love Outcome (Upright & Reversed) Tarot Card Meaning

The Seven of Wands is the card of protection, defense, and taking a stand for the things that matter. The card shows a man standing on a hill and being challenged by his opponents below. He is resilient and he does not give up. He is defending his position and he is giving it his all. He is taking a stand for himself.  

The Seven of Wands reminds us that there are times in life where you need to stand up for yourself and what you believe in. We are meant to defend and protect the people we care about the most. The Seven of Wands reminds us that tenacity and persistence will be rewarded. 

Upright Seven of Wands as Love Outcome

If you are asking about what is the outcome of a relationship, and you draw the Seven of Wands, that means that your person is willing to fight for you. Alternatively, they could also feel like they need to defend you and the relationship at all costs. This is especially true if your relationship has faced opposition and judgment from those outside of your relationship. The Seven of Wands card is astrologically associated with Mars in Leo, a very fiery energy. However, this fiery energy isn’t overly aggressive, it is mostly defensive. One interpretation of this card would be that your person feels like they need to protect your relationship from their (or even your) competition. This could be a relationship where many external influences try to interfere.

The Seven of Wands as love outcome is a sign of being standoffish or constantly feeling on guard. If your relationship has no issues with external parties trying to interfere, drawing this card could mean feeling like you need to defend yourselves in the relationship. This is not a healthy dynamic for any relationship, especially if this becomes a chronic, almost daily occurrence. Whatever the source of tension or conflict is, needs to be sorted and healed. We can’t continuously experience our relationships in “battle mode.” It’s unhealthy for ourselves and unfair to our partners. Know when to walk away, if the relationship starts feeling abusive.

If you are wondering about a potential relationship, the Seven of Wands as love outcome means your person is willing to do whatever it takes to make this relationship work. This is great news if you’re anxious about how friends, family, or society in general might oppose your relationship. Your person is willing to defend the relationship. Whether it’s opposition from those around you, or logistical issues like distance, they’ll fight for you. They believe in you and the relationship’s potential, and they believe you’re worth the fight. This person is very optimistic, and sees a bright future with you.

If you are in a new relationship, the Seven of Wands as love outcome means there could be some guardedness. This is perfectly normal for new relationships in development. Neither of you know each other too well, and you both fear judgment or rejection from the other. However, note that sooner or later, both of you will inevitably get to know your true selves. Letting your hair down as soon as possible might save you a lot of grief in the long run. Even better, being open and positive will manifest positivity into your relationship. Your partner will be accepting of the real you. Just be yourself! 

If you are in an existing relationship, the Seven of Wands as love outcome means one or both of you could feel defensive about something. Whether this due to an ongoing disagreement or a sudden Tower moment, it needs to be addressed. Having both of your walls up isn’t helping anyone. This Seven of Wands energy is simply not conducive to the open, honest, vulnerable conversations that need to take place for constructive problem solving to happen. Ask yourself why is it so hard for you to open up or speak up about this issue? Insecurity, fear, or do you logically have no reason to be so guarded?

If you are currently in separation with each other, the Seven of Wands as love outcome means your partner is fighting hard for what they want. If you are separated by distance, and your person wants to be closer to you, they could be prepping all the resources and logistics to make that a reality. They’re not about to give up. Similarly, if you’re inquiring about an ex you’re interested in reconciling with, they won’t give up without a fight. Are they defensive and afraid of getting hurt again? Yes, but they’re willing to give the relationship and you another chance. Hopefully both of you can be gentle with each others’ hearts.

Reversed Seven of Wands as Love Outcome

If you are asking about what is the outcome of a relationship, and you draw the Seven of Wands reversed, that means that one or both of you feel defenseless in the relationship. Perhaps your relationship faced a lot of opposition from those around you, and you’re tired of it. Both of you are worn out from constant questions and commentary from external sources. If this is the case, please don’t let the stress from external sources cause your relationship to suffer. Whether you’re both living an alternative lifestyle, you come from different backgrounds, or if you’re both a non-traditional couple, stay as a unit, no matter what. Don’t fight, that’s exactly what the naysayers would want.

The Seven of Wands reversed as love outcome is a sign of feeling defeated. You or your person feels like they’re constantly under attack or judgment. Alternatively, this could indicate being on guard due to loss of trust. Make sure that whatever breach of trust you perceive to have actually happened, and it wasn’t a misunderstanding – as that is a possibility when this card is drawn in the reverse. Whereas the Seven of Wands in the upright is ready to fight, when drawn in the reverse, this is the energy of giving up. Have an honest conversation to restore that trust.

If you are wondering about a potential relationship, the Seven of Wands reversed as love outcome means that you could feel like you’re walking on eggshells around each other. Perhaps you know your person has just gotten out of a messy divorce, and you don’t want to trigger them. Or, do they know about your childhood wounds and feel constantly on edge? It’s great to be considerate and accommodating, but does it feel natural? Ask yourselves if you’re actually ready to deal with this. Perhaps the healthier thing to do would be to heal your traumas and do some shadow work, so you can have a healthier relationship flow.

If you are in a new relationship, the Seven of Wands reversed as love outcome means letting your guard down. Drawing this card in the reverse is a positive sign. You’re open to giving and receiving, and the dynamic just has a better flow now. This is an especially positive card if you’re checking on whether this new relationship has evolved. This card indicates being able to be yourselves around each other. Perhaps this would be a good time to have an open conversation about anything that’s been concerning you, if any?

If you are in an existing relationship, the Seven of Wands reversed as love outcome means you or your person are on the verge of giving up. You’ve been fighting for this relationship for such a long time, both of you feel exhausted. You may feel beyond frustrated, and wonder if these disagreements are irreconcilable in nature. If you’re feeling emotionally exhausted, drained, and defeated, maybe it’s time to examine how healthy or abusive your situation is, and whether it’s time for you to focus on seeking inner peace without your person.

If you are currently in separation with each other, the Seven of Wands reversed as love outcome means giving up hope. Whether you’re separated by distance or you’re inquiring about an ex you’re interested in reconciling with, your person is exhausted. They are worn out. They could be working extra hours to fund the trips to visit you, or preparing for a major intercontinental move. If you want the relationship to survive, let them know it’s okay to take it easy and take their time to breathe. They’re tired of fighting for your relationship, if that’s been the case. Your ex may have their guard down because they’re numb. For now, perhaps it is best to take a breather.

Conclusion

For love readings, the Seven of Wands represents boundaries and fighting for what you believe in. There are times in life where you should not give up, because the people you love are worth fighting for. The Seven of Wands reminds us that boundaries and limits are key to every successful relationship, and communication is needed. 

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