Seven of Wands as Reconciliation (Upright & Reversed) Tarot Card Meaning

The Seven of Wands is the card of protection, defense, and taking a stand for the things that matter. The card shows a man standing on a hill and being challenged by his opponents below. He is resilient and he does not give up. He is defending his position and he is giving it his all. He is taking a stand for himself.  

The Seven of Wands reminds us that there are times in life where you need to stand up for yourself and what you believe in. We are meant to defend and protect the people we care about the most. The Seven of Wands reminds us that tenacity and persistence will be rewarded. 

Upright Seven of Wands as Reconciliation

If you are asking about how your ex feels about reconciling with you, and you draw the Seven of Wands, it means that your ex wants to fight for you. There are probably people around them right now that are trying to talk them out of it and convince them that you aren’t worth it, but they’ve made up their mind. Your relationship together wasn’t perfect, but it was everything they wanted. They believe in you and in what your relationship was and could be.

Seven of Wands as reconciliation is a sign of strong will. They know that your relationship can work with the right amount of effort. And the best part is that they’re also willing to put in the effort to ensure your relationship stays afloat this time around. Even when times get tough, they will stand by you and your relationship. 

When your ex thinks about reconciliation with you, they feel confident that it is the right thing to do. They truly, truly believe in your relationship with their entire body and soul. They know that you’re the right person for them — they can feel it in their bones. It doesn’t matter who opposes them and their decision because they will always fight for you and defend your honor. 

If you’ve recently split up, Seven of Wands means that they’ve realized the single life isn’t for them. They’ve always been thinking about your relationship, and you’ve never left their mind. Now that they’ve spent time alone, they’ve finally realized how important you are to them and how much they want this relationship. Even if you give them a hard time, they will find their way back to you. 

If you’ve been in separation for a while, Seven of Wands means that they just took a longer while to realize this. They needed some time apart to truly see how much you mean to them, and now they do! They know that there will be many hurdles that will stop you from being together, but they also know that every fight will be worth it as long as they are with you. Reconciliation is definitely coming. 

If the two of you are still considering whether or not you should break up, Seven of Wands means that your partner wants to make this work. If you’ve been having some arguments or aren’t seeing eye-to-eye, don’t be afraid to talk to your partner. Both of you need to discuss what you like and set some boundaries with each other. Your partner is willing to put in all the effort in the world to satisfy you so be as open with them as possible — stay together because this one’s a fighter.

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Reversed Seven of Wands as Reconciliation

If you are asking about how your ex feels about reconciling with you, and you draw the Seven of Wands reversed, it means that your ex is on the defensive. They are defending themselves from everybody and it’s clouding their vision. They can’t see things clearly and if someone tries to point something out to them, it sets them off. When a problem arises, they’d rather turn around and blame everyone else because they truly feel like they are not at fault. 

Your ex feels like they’ve done all that they could and that if there are any shortcomings, it isn’t their fault anymore. If there’s a fight, they feel like they’ve already communicated everything and have already tried their best to make it work. They feel that if you still don’t see eye-to-eye, then it’s a “you” problem. They feel like they’ve already made quite an effort, but those efforts weren’t reciprocated by you. 

Seven of Wands reversed as reconciliation is a sign of denial. They know what they want to do, but they aren’t willing to put in the effort to achieve those things. Rather than put in the effort and take initiative, they want things to be handed to them while they sit back and relax. In fact, their constant state of denial may even make them feel like they are a victim and were mistreated by you. 

When your ex thinks about reconciliation with you, they feel frustrated. They don’t agree with the way your relationship ended, yet they are unable to notice their contributions to the breakup. They have convinced themselves that it was all your fault and that they already did their best to make it work but it was you who wasn’t trying to save the relationship. While it is possible that you may have contributed to the breakup, it isn’t fair for them to be placing all the blame on you. Unfortunately, though, you cannot change their mind. You can argue with them for days, but they will stay on the defensive the whole way.

If you’ve recently split up, Seven of Wands reversed means that your ex is still unable to take responsibility for their faults. They are in denial about the role they played and will continue to deny the truth. However, they also feel stuck. Even though they place all the blame on you, they cannot let you go and aren’t ready to move on either. Reconciliation is possible, but only if they can stop being on the defensive and finally realize that you aren’t trying to fight them when asking for accountability. 

If you’ve been in separation for a while, Seven of Wands reversed means that they are still stuck. They cannot see past the haziness that’s preventing them from seeing the reality of the situation. They really need to mature and realize the mistakes of their actions. Again, unless they are able to acknowledge the role they played in your breakup and stop taking a defensive approach, reconciliation won’t be possible. 

If the two of you are still considering whether or not you should break up, Seven of Wands reversed means that your partner needs to be more humble and open. There are probably some issues between you two right now, but you aren’t able to talk it out because they refuse to admit their mistakes. You deserve to be with someone who recognizes your efforts and isn’t afraid to put in a little effort of their own. If it’s too much for you, then don’t be afraid to break things off. The best-case scenario is the break up serves as their wake-up call and they will finally pull their head out of the sand. But if not, then take a step back and reconsider whether you want to be with someone like that. (Spoiler alert: You deserve better!)

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Conclusion

For relationships and reconciliation, the Seven of Wands represents boundaries and fighting for what you believe in. There are times in life where you should not give up, because the people you love are worth fighting for. The Seven of Wands reminds us that boundaries and limits are key to every successful relationship, and communication is needed. 

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