Six of Pentacles as Feelings in Love & Relationships (Upright & Reversed)

The Six of Pentacles is the card of generosity, gratitude, community, support, and sharing. This card shows a wealthy man handing out coins to two beggars who kneel at his feet. He holds out a balanced scale, representing fairness and justice.  

The Six of Pentacles reminds us that there is a constant give and take in relationships. Sometimes, you are on the giving end, and sometimes, you are on the receiving end. This card is also a reminder for us to be fair in our interactions with others. Be open to receiving generosity, and also be generous with others when you are in the position to do so. 

Upright Six of Pentacles as Feelings

If you are asking about how someone feels about you and you draw the Six of Pentacles, it means that this person is feeling supportive and supported by you. They feel that you are very giving, and they also want to generously give back to you. They want to do their best for you, because they know that you will do your best for them. 

They also feel that your relationship is reciprocal and balanced. They know that they can count on you when it matters, and they hope that you feel the same way. They want you to know that you are able to count on them whenever you need them.  

For singles and those embarking on new relationships, the Six of Pentacles means that this person’s feelings towards you are very positive. They feel that the two of you balance each other out. They feel that you are supportive of them, and that they want to be equally supportive of you. This is a great place to be in at the start of a new relationship. 

For existing relationships, the Six of Pentacles indicates that this person feels that your relationship is at a very good place right now. They feel that their efforts are reciprocated by you. They get as much out of the relationship as they put in, and they feel very positively about it. They want to do their best for you, because they know that you will do your best for them. This is a good sign for the relationship to continue to move forward and progress.  

If you are asking about an old flame or an ex’s feelings about you, the Six of Pentacles indicates that they have realized that your past relationship was a good one. You were both able to support each other in many ways, and they did not fully appreciate that until now. If you are looking to reconcile, this is a good sign.  

In the context of whether or not a relationship is headed for commitment, engagement, or marriage, the Six of Pentacles is a great sign. Your partner feels that your relationship is very balanced and reciprocal. They know that you support them in all that they do, and that they want to support you equally in all of your endeavors. They are excited about the future, and they can see themselves taking the next step.  

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Reversed Six of Pentacles as Feelings

When the Six of Pentacles is reversed, it means that this person is feeling that there is an imbalance in the relationship. They either feel like they are the one who is constantly giving and never receiving, or that you are the one who is constantly giving and never receiving. They may be feeling resentful of this dynamic.

They may also be feeling trapped and dependent. They feel taken advantage of, and they are not sure of how to correct the power imbalance. This can create big problems within the relationship if it is ignored for too much longer. 

For singles and those in new relationships, the Six of Pentacles reversed is a sign of feeling like the relationship between you is unbalanced in some way. They may feel like they are the ones who are constantly reaching out to you. Or, alternatively, they may feel like you are needing more than they can give you right now. This imbalance needs to be addressed before your new relationship can move forward.  

For those in committed relationships, the Six of Pentacles reversed is a sign of feeling like there is a power imbalance in your relationship. They may be feeling resentful that they are the one who is constantly giving, and they may be feeling trapped and dependent. Or, they can also feel that you want more than they can give you right now. This dynamic between you can create big problems within the relationship, so this is a warning to not ignore it. It’s time to sit down and talk honestly about what both of you need right now.

If you are asking about an ex’s feelings about you, the Six of Pentacles reversed means that they feel the relationship between you was too unbalanced for it to work. The power dynamic between the two of you was never addressed, and that weighed down the relationship. They will only be open to reconciliation when they feel that this is addressed between you.  

In the context of whether or not a relationship is headed for commitment, engagement, or marriage, the Six of Pentacles reversed means that they are feeling like there are still gaps for the two of you to overcome before making a larger commitment. Specifically, they feel that the relationship between you and them needs to become more balanced. This can refer to emotions as well as finances. Is one of you earning more than the other? Is one of you contributing more than the other? These practical questions will need to be answered before they will feel comfortable moving forward. 

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Conclusion

For relationships and feelings, the Six of Pentacles represents the give and take that is inherent in all relationships. We should be open to both giving and receiving love. When you can support others, do so. When you need to be supported, let others help. 

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