Six of Wands as Feelings in Love & Relationships (Upright & Reversed)

The Six of Wands is the card of success, victory, triumph, achievement, rewards, and recognition. The card shows a man riding a horse through a crowd of people. A crown of victory sits on his head. Everyone in the crowd acknowledges this man’s achievements and success. This card is a celebration of victory.  

The Six of Wands reminds us that there is success to be found in every corner of the Universe. Victory can be yours. You can manifest the success you want into your life. Set your intention and watch it come back to you. If you are looking for love, this card is a good sign.

Upright Six of Wands as Feelings

If you are asking about how someone feels about you and you draw the Six of Wands, it means that this person is feeling very positively about you. They think very highly of you and admire you deeply. They feel elevated, confident, and inspired by you. You bring out the best in this person, and they know it. They feel extremely attracted to you and your presence. 

This person may also be feeling very excited about your future together. They believe in you. They also believe in the future of your relationship. They are eager to grow together with you. Together, you can build something amazing. 

If you’re single, the Six of Wands tarot love meaning signals that success is coming your way. It may be that others find you especially attractive right now. If you’ve been searching for someone, they may be more receptive to you than usual. All it takes is you making your approach. If you’re in a relationship, and you’ve been working together towards something, like moving in together after a long distance relationship, or buying a home, these goals are likely to come into fruition. The future between you seems bright, and can bring the two of you much joy.

For singles and those embarking on new relationships, the Six of Wands means that this person is feeling very attracted to you. They are excited about you, and they are very glad that they met you. You are a huge source of inspiration to them. They are very eager to see where your relationship can go. This is a very positive sign for any new relationship because the enthusiasm is there. 

For existing relationships, the Six of Wands indicates that this person feels that your relationship is at a very happy place right now. They feel victorious. Your relationship, like every relationship, has its ups and downs, but it’s more up than down. If there was such a thing as a dream relationship, this would be it. When they are with you, this person feels like their best and most authentic self. If you are looking to take your relationship to the next level, this card is a sign to go for it. 

If you are asking about an old flame or an ex’s feelings about you, the Six of Wands indicates that they still bear a torch for you. They are still thinking about you, and they are thinking about you very positively. They remember all of the good times that you had together. They remember how great your relationship was. They may be finding out that the grass is not greener in the single life. If you are asking about reconciliation, that is something that your ex is interested in. They may be reaching out to you in the near future.  

In the context of whether or not a relationship is headed for commitment, engagement, or marriage, the Six of Wands is a great sign. Your partner definitely sees the value in taking your relationship to the next level. In fact, they would feel honored to do so. If you are in the same frame of mind, now is a good time to talk to them about it. Victory and success are coming your way. 

Reversed Six of Wands as Feelings

When the Six of Wands is reversed, it means that this person is feeling insecure and lacking confidence right now. They may be feeling unappreciated, neglected, and even jealous. These feelings are normal things that everyone feels at some point, but they can become a bigger problem if their presence is constant. Ask yourself where their feelings are coming from. They could be valid, or they could be projections. 

This person is not feeling like a winner right now. They may even be feeling like a loser. They are drowning in their own negativity, but it is not necessarily because of you. It could be stemming from factors outside of your control, such as their childhood trauma. 

For singles and those in new relationships, the Six of Wands reversed is a sign of feeling insecure and jealous. This person has confidence issues and it’s showing. They like you a lot, even if they sometimes don’t show it. If this person is lashing out at you, it’s because they feel insecure about themselves. Deep inside, they are very needy. This problem is not necessarily possible for you to fix, as this person has to look within themselves to see why they do this. 

For those in committed relationships, the Six of Wands reversed is a sign of feeling unappreciated and neglected. This could stem from this person’s own insecurity, or it could be because the two of you have become too bogged down on the day-to-day details to spend time with each other. Take a step back and assess your relationship. How can the two of you work together to improve it? If you can have an honest conversation about that, you will find your relationship soaring to new heights.   

If you are asking about an ex’s feelings about you, the Six of Wands reversed means that they are still thinking about you. If breakups had winners and losers, they are feeling like the loser in the breakup right now. It’s tearing them apart inside, but they are unwilling to do anything to change. If you are asking if there is a potential reconciliation here, it may be possible once this person gets their act together.  

In the context of whether or not a relationship is headed for commitment, engagement, or marriage, the Six of Wands reversed means that they are feeling like there are still major issues for the two of you to overcome before making a larger commitment. They want to go into a big commitment feeling like a winner. There are still unresolved issues between you that need to be addressed. If you can work through this, you will both be in a better place to move forward. 

Conclusion

For relationships and feelings, the Six of Wands represents victory and success. This is a great place for you to be. The positivity is off the charts. The Six of Wands reminds us that good things are not just coming, but they are already here! All of the efforts that you’ve put in are paying off.

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