Six of Wands as Reconciliation Tarot Card Meaning Sibyl Tarot

The Six of Wands is the card of success, victory, triumph, achievement, rewards, and recognition. The card shows a man riding a horse through a crowd of people. A crown of victory sits on his head. Everyone in the crowd acknowledges this man’s achievements and success. This card is a celebration of victory.  

The Six of Wands reminds us that there is success to be found in every corner of the Universe. Victory can be yours. You can manifest the success you want into your life. Set your intention and watch it come back to you. If you are looking for love, this card is a good sign.

Upright Six of Wands as Reconciliation

If you are asking about how your ex feels about reconciling with you, and you draw the Six of Wands, it means that they still admire you deeply. You were a very positive presence in their life and they miss it. You make them feel very confident and uplifted and everything you do inspires them to do better. You make them want to be the best version of themselves.

Six of Wands as reconciliation is a sign of extreme attraction. Your ex is still very, very attracted to you, not just physically but also spiritually. Your presence speaks to them. They are aware of your positive effect on them and want to chase after that. They have no doubt in their mind that you are good for them, and that together, you will both be able to grow. Your future together is looking very bright and they can feel this too. 

When your ex thinks about reconciliation with you, they feel excited to try again. When you were together, you probably set a lot of goals together and were able to meet most of them, however, there is still some stuff leftover that your ex wants to achieve with you. Your ex fondly remembers your time together and still thinks about you often. They harbor no hard feelings over the breakup and are more than willing to reach out to you so you can try again.

If you’ve recently split up, Six of Wands means that things are looking up. Your breakup was more of a temporary thing for you guys to spend some time apart, but your ex has had enough and will be reaching out to you soon. They’ve come to realize that you are their person and that their life was so much better with you in it. Your relationship was a beacon of light for them and they want you back.

If you’ve been in separation for a while, Six of Wands signifies that they couldn’t get you out of their mind. While you were apart, they still kept on thinking about you and your amazing relationship. They’ve pondered over it and have noticed that your relationship really did have more ups than downs. They’ve had enough of the single life and have also realized that the single life just isn’t for them — their place is by your side and they wholly accept that. Expect a phone call or a text from them soon!

If the two of you are still considering whether or not you should break up, Six of Wands means that your relationship is headed in the right direction. Whatever issues you have right now are minuscule compared to what the Universe has in store for you two. Try setting some big milestones that you want to achieve together, because there is a great chance that you’ll be able to achieve whatever they are soon. Your partner is still very much in love with you and is looking forward to growing together and spending more time together. 

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Reversed Six of Wands as Reconciliation

If you are asking about how your ex feels about reconciling with you, and you draw the Six of Wands reversed, it means that you made your ex feel unappreciated. While you were together there may have been some things you said or did that made them feel this way. Try to recall and think about it though because it’s also possible that it may not be your fault at all. They may just be projecting their insecurities. And, while it’s normal to feel down sometimes, it isn’t healthy to feel like this all the time. Your ex is really going through it right now and isn’t feeling like themselves. There’s too many negative thoughts going through their head right now to consider reconciliation. 

Six of Wands reversed as reconciliation is a sign of loss of control. They’ve lost the reins on who they are, and they feel like a straight up loser. They’re still thinking about you and want you back, but they feel too bad about themselves to pursue you right now. Their thoughts are all over the place. They can’t get over the ‘loser’ feeling. They’ve missed out on many things, and now they’re missing out on you.

When your ex thinks about reconciliation with you, they feel insecure. Your breakup might have been caused by them projecting their own insecurities onto you. Now, it’s not really your fault. It could be something that stems from childhood trauma and you had no hand in it, so don’t blame yourself too much. Not being with you is tearing them apart, but again, they just aren’t in the right state of mind to pursue you.

If you’ve recently split up, Six of Wands reversed means that your ex really needs to get their act together. They do want you and they definitely like you a lot, they just don’t feel too hot right now. They feel like a failure and a loser, and it’s just bringing them down. Their morale is at an all time low, so if you want reconciliation then you’ll have to wait for them to pull themselves together or you can try your best to motivate them again.

If you’ve been in separation for a while, Six of Wands reversed means that your ex still needs that push in the right direction. Remember, they aren’t a lost cause, it’s just that their insecurities are getting the best of them right now. Give them some more time to get their act together because reconciliation is definitely possible. You’re still on their mind even through all the chaos and negative thoughts in their head. Don’t worry, any negativity they feel is directed at themselves, not you.

If the two of you are still considering whether or not you should break up, Six of Wands reversed means that there are some unresolved issues in your relationship and it’s starting to get to your partner. It’s making them feel unappreciated and a little jealous even. Your partner is a very needy person deep down, so maybe you need to start spending a little more time together each day to ease their anxiety. They have confidence issues and need help working through them, but once they do, your relationship can go very far. 

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For relationships and reconciliation, the Six of Wands represents victory and success. This is a great place for you to be. The positivity is off the charts. The Six of Wands reminds us that good things are not just coming, but they are already here! All of the efforts that you’ve put in are paying off.

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