Star as Reconciliation Tarot Card Meaning Sibyl Tarot

The Star is the card of hope, optimism, faith, renewal, and spirituality. The Star depicts a naked woman kneeling over a pool of water, surrounded by the light of many stars rising in the sky. Her nakedness represents spiritual purity and faith. She has no fear, because the light of the stars guides her way. She is full of positivity. 

The Star reminds us of the positivity that relationships bring into our lives. Within our relationships with each other, we can find hope, optimism, and spiritual renewal. It is this energy that guides us forward in the journey of life. This is the energy that we want to cultivate in our lives and our relationships. 

Upright Star as Reconciliation

If you are asking about how your ex feels about reconciling with you, and you draw the Star, it means that they feel positively about reconciliation. You make them feel refreshed, which makes you and your past relationship very significant to them. They know that they have your support in anything that they do which makes them want to chase after their hopes and dreams. You were such a beacon of light in their life and they fully realize this now. They also recognize how much they grew with you. You inspired them to become a better person, and looking back, they noticed just how much of a positive effect you had on them while you were together.

The Star as reconciliation can also indicate healing. This is a great sign of reconciliation! Going through the breakup was rough, and, quite frankly, they hated every moment of it. There was a lot of pain and hurt involved, but drawing the Star means that they have finally healed from that. Whatever issues there were between you two are now solved. They feel refreshed and are ready to tackle anything with an open mind. There is great potential here.

When your ex thinks about reconciliation with you, they feel very hopeful. The breakup was a good eye-opener for them. They’ve taken the time to self-reflect, and they now realize what went wrong while they were alone. Your ex has put in the work and is ready to move forward and heal past wounds with you. They have an open mind and feel very optimistic when thinking about reconciliation with you. As long as they can feel that you are open to the idea as well, reconciliation is definitely possible here. Be honest and open when they reach out to you and communicate with your whole heart in it.

If you’ve recently split up, and you draw the Star, then it means that your ex wants to reconcile. They have moved on from whatever problems you had while together and are ready to come back to you. They know how good your relationship was, and your ex feels that you are meant to be together. Spiritually, you guys are the perfect match, so it would be such a shame to let each other go. Welcome your ex back with open arms because reconciliation is on the horizon, but only if you’re open to it too.

If you’ve been in separation for a while, the time apart has made them feel like a new person. Your ex has learned from their mistakes. They recognize that you’ve stuck by their side through thick and thin, and they feel like it’s time for them to return the favor. Again, this card means that they’ve finally healed from any wounds caused by your relationship and they are ready to try again. They’re excited to grow closer again and further help each other heal from past wounds.

If the two of you are still considering whether or not you should break up, the Star is a big fat “No!”. This is such a great card to get, especially after rough patches with your partner. It signifies reconciliation and healing, and it’s here to reassure you that your relationship is stronger than whatever issues have been festering between you two. Stay together because brighter days are on the horizon. All it takes is an open line of communication between you and your partner, and you’ll be good as new.

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Reversed Star as Reconciliation

If you are asking about how someone feels about reconciling with you, and you draw the Star reversed, it means that your ex feels very disconnected from you. Your relationship was very rocky and lacked a strong foundation, which was ultimately the reason for your falling out. They lack confidence in you and your past relationship and they feel that you aren’t compatible as partners. They don’t trust you, but remember, this isn’t your fault and it’s entirely possible that it stems from their distrust of themselves. 

The Star reversed as reconciliation can also mean that they feel unworthy of you. Their lack of confidence and trust in themselves was the double-edged sword that also caused them to push you away. They feel that your relationship has no hope and their self-esteem issues are too damaging for them to move forward. Perhaps you weren’t able to calm them down and make them believe that you loved them, but even still, there was only so much you could do. Don’t hold yourself responsible for how your ex sees themself.

When your ex thinks about reconciliation with you, it’s not looking good. Right now, they don’t really want to reconcile. Your breakup caused a lot of damage, and they took it really hard. Your breakup solidified their ideology that they aren’t worthy of love and they need to learn to trust themselves and rediscover their self-confidence before they can accommodate loving someone else. After all, if they struggle to love themselves, how are they supposed to find it in them to love someone else? 

If you’ve recently split up, your breakup has hurt them severely. They are currently feeling very overwhelmed and will need time to recover and pull themselves together. Also, going back, they just feel disconnected from you. They don’t feel as though they can seek you out for comfort and safety and this signifies that reconciliation is really not on their mind. 

If you’ve been in separation for a while, then maybe it’s for the better. The more time that has passed just goes to show how much of a struggle it is for your person to overcome their self-esteem issues and find their voice. Reconciliation isn’t going to happen, and the most you can do is just wish the best for your ex and hope they are able to heal. 

If the two of you are still considering whether or not you should break up, and you draw the Star reversed, it means that you and your partner are unable to break the cycle that’s been caging you in recently. Maybe you’ve been arguing over the same things over and over again and this causes more doubt and distrust to bloom between you two. Your partner doesn’t know how to break free from this cycle, and if it continues, then it’s time to break it off. However, this also signifies that this is the best time to have an open and honest conversation with them. Just listen to what they have to say and try to support them, but never do this at your own expense.

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For relationships and reconciliation, the Star reveals our hopes and dreams. The Star is a guiding light, showing us the positive path. Relationships can bring so much into our lives. If we look hard within ourselves and each other, we find beauty, positivity, hope, and renewal. If we lean into this, our journey of life is made stronger, brighter, and more beautiful. 

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