Sun as Feelings in Love & Relationships (Upright & Reversed)

The Sun is the card of happiness, success, optimism, confidence, and joy. The card depicts a sun rising above a joyous, happy child. The sun is a symbol of vitality, optimism, happiness, and the joy found in the here and now. Compared to its counterpart the moon, the sun’s light is strong, vibrant, and fully illuminating. 

The Sun reminds us that there is something positive to be found in every situation. Even when your relationship feels like it’s languishing, there is something to appreciate and to love. There is positivity everywhere, even if it is hidden behind a cloud. The Sun reminds us to tune into gratitude and to be positive.

Upright Sun as Feelings

If you are asking about how someone feels about you and you draw the Sun, it means that this person has very positive feelings about you. You make them happy, and when they are with you, they want to celebrate. They feel fulfilled with you. They feel like your relationship is blossoming, and there is even more potential for it to grow. They feel close to you, and they want to be with you as you enjoy life’s blessings together. 

The Sun is also a sign of harmony. There is potential here for the two of you to use this time to create an even closer connection. With you, they feel radiant. They can be themselves around you, and you bring out their inner child. This has given them comfort that they have not felt in a long time. They are attracted to you and your positivity.

For singles and those embarking on new relationships, the Sun means that this person’s feelings towards you are very positive and harmonious. They feel great when they are with you, and they want to be with you. The Sun is a great sign of things to come. They think that this spark between you could be a sign of a meaningful relationship to come. For those embarking on a new relationship, this is also a great sign. Your partner feels passionately about you and their decision to be with you. They are super positive about what your relationship could bring for both of you. They believe that you are their twin flame. Should you be single, now is also the time to step out and let yourself shine. Your positivity and radiance can be magnetic now, and draw you the kind of romance that you’ve dreamed of.

For existing relationships, the Sun indicates that this person is feeling very positive about where your relationship is headed. You’ve been through it all, through thick and thin, and overall, you are such a positive influence on them and their life. Your partner’s feelings for you are very strong. Whenever someone asks them about you, they just glow! Their entire life is better with you, because you complete them. This is also a sign that your relationship is headed for a positive future and even deeper love and commitment.  

If you are asking about an old flame or an ex’s feelings about you, the Sun indicates that they still want to be with you. Despite your breakup, they still feel very positively about you. In fact, being apart from you has only highlighted this fact in their mind. They are having the realization that their life is incomplete without you in it. Your ex may reach out soon about getting back together, because reconciliation is on their mind. 

In the context of whether or not a relationship is headed for commitment, engagement, or marriage, the Sun is a strong sign for the affirmative. Your partner feels that you are truly the light of their life. You are the sun to their earth. You complete them, and they want to be with you for the rest of their life. They feel whole with you, and they are at ease with benign themselves. If you are wondering if they will propose, all signs point to yes.

Reversed Sun as Feelings

When the Sun is reversed, it means that this person is taking your relationship for granted. Although your relationship is going well, they may feel bored at times. The Sun is still shining, though it may be temporarily blocked out by the clouds right now. They are letting negativity from other areas in their life affect them, and they are unable to see beyond the here and now. They are not in a good headspace, and it’s hard for them to see the positives in life.

They may also feel that you are drifting apart due to daily routines and mundane tasks. This is a good time for you to communicate and spice up the relationship. It’s likely that the two of you need a little more quality time together to rekindle your romance. The Sun is always a positive card, whether upright or reversed; but reversed it usually means that something prevents you from seeing the wonderful things that you already have. What about your partner did you fall in love with? What can you be thankful for in your relationship?

For singles and those in new relationships, the Sun reversed is a sign of feeling uninterested. Even though you bring a lot of positive attributes to the table, this person’s focus is elsewhere. The “spark” was intense, but it has burned itself out. They are taking you for granted. If you are still evaluating whether or not to pursue a relationship, remember that you deserve someone who truly appreciates you. 

For those in committed relationships, the Sun reversed is a sign of feeling bored even when everything is going well. Are either of you taking your relationship for granted? Perhaps you and your partner have drifted apart recently due to daily routines and mundane tasks. This is a sign that you need to get the spark back in your relationship. Spend a little more quality time with your partner, so that both of you can appreciate the great relationship that you already have.

If you are asking about an ex’s feelings about you, the Sun reversed means that they dwell more on the bad than the good of your relationship. Even though there were many positive things about your relationship, your ex is focused on the negative. During the relationship, they may have taken you for granted. If you are asking about reconciliation, the Sun reversed indicates that it is unlikely unless your ex changes their mindset to a more positive one. 

In the context of whether or not a relationship is headed for commitment, engagement, or marriage, the Sun reversed means that they are feeling bored and taking what you have for granted. They feel that they have no incentive to take the next step. The Sun is a positive card, but reversed, it means that something is preventing this person from seeing the wonderful things they already have. When they can connect with their inner gratitude and realize what they have, they’ll naturally want to commit further.

Conclusion

For relationships and feelings, the Sun is a very positive card. Whether upright or reversed, the Sun shines its light on everything. The lesson in this card is that the truth will always come out, one way or another. Daylight always comes again, and summer will always be just around the corner. The best way to move forward is through communication. Don’t take your partner for granted. Show appreciation every day, and your positivity will shine through.

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