Three of Wands as Feelings in Love & Relationships (Upright & Reversed)

The Three of Wands is the card of confidence, momentum, growth, and future prospects. The card depicts a man standing on the edge of a cliff, looking over the ocean and the mountains. So much is ahead of him, and he knows it. He is looking forward to the future. He is committed, and he is confident that his commitment is good and will bring abundance into his life.

The Three of Wands reminds us that true commitment is possible. Your twin flame is out there. The person who you are meant to be with will commit to you, no questions asked. They will see the value in doing so, and they won’t hesitate. Remember what you deserve in love because you deserve nothing but the best. 

Upright Three of Wands as Feelings

If you are asking about how someone feels about you and you draw the Three of Wands, it means that this person is feeling very sure about you. Not only do they see the potential in your relationship, but they are also committed to making it work with you. They feel confident in you. They know that together, you can figure this out. 

They are also looking forward to the future. This person is future-oriented and likes to have a plan. They see you fitting within their life plan, and they want to create a future together with you. They feel that your relationship has a lot of growth potential, and they are excited to ride the momentum up to the next level. 

For singles and those embarking on new relationships, the Three of Wands means that this person’s feelings towards you are very positive and they are focused on creating a strong foundation for lasting commitment. They are not just concerned with having fun in the here and now. They want to know that they are doing the right things to build a strong relationship with you for the long-term. If you are looking for something more serious, this person could be the one for you.  

For existing relationships, the Three of Wands indicates that this person feels ready to take your relationship to the next level. This is a great time for you to set sight of your goals as a couple. This person wants to work together to reach your goals. If you’ve been thinking about moving in together or making a larger commitment, now is a good time for you to have that conversation. Communicating everything from the big picture to the small details is going to serve your relationship well. 

If you are asking about an old flame or an ex’s feelings about you, the Three of Wands indicates that they feel committed to their current path forward. They think about you from time to time, and they feel that you were a significant part of making them into who they are today. Though your paths may cross again in the future, they know that they have to find themselves first. Travel and self-growth may very well be in their near future. If you are thinking about reconciliation, you will need to both be in the serious mindset of seeing each other in your future.  

In the context of whether or not a relationship is headed for commitment, engagement, or marriage, the Three of Wands is an excellent sign. This person’s mind is already there. They see the value in growing together. They are excited to create a future together. Now is a great time for you to start talking about what that will look like and what the next steps are.  

Reversed Three of Wands as Feelings

When the Three of Wands is reversed, it means that this person is feeling unsure of what the future looks like with you. They sometimes feel frustrated about your relationship. You’ve had to overcome a lot of obstacles together, and that’s been difficult for them. 

This person is also finding out that a relationship is not all about them, and that’s been tough for them. This person has their head in the sand. Sometimes, it’s easier for them to pretend that nothing is wrong rather than face up to their fears and insecurities. They need to recognize that love is not always a smooth ride and sometimes they need to be patient and understanding. 

For singles and those in new relationships, the Three of Wands reversed is a sign of feeling unsure about commitment. They feel like your relationship is struggling to get off the ground for some reason. It could be on their end from holding onto past baggage. Trying to force things forward will be counterproductive. Try to get on the same page with your person to see where they are at. It will only work out when both of you want the same level of commitment. 

For those in committed relationships, the Three of Wands reversed is a sign of feeling frustrated and impatient with the relationship’s trajectory. You’ve had your share of miscommunications, and they don’t know how to proceed from here. Now is a good time for you to have a talk about where you see your relationship headed and how you can both work together to meet each other’s needs. Both of you are important to each other, and both of you deserve to be appreciated. 

If you are asking about an ex’s feelings about you, the Three of Wands reversed means that they are feeling frustrated about your relationship. They are finding it hard to see a way to break out of the cycle that you find yourself in, especially if you are often caught in a cycle of breaking up and making up. If you are considering reconciliation, you will both need to work together to get down to the root issue. Only then will things improve between the two of you.  

In the context of whether or not a relationship is headed for commitment, engagement, or marriage, the Three of Wands reversed means that they are feeling like there are still gaps for the two of you to overcome before making a larger commitment. They want to be aligned with you. They need a clear picture and understanding of where your relationship is headed and what your future looks like. Both of you may need to compromise from time to time, as it’s unrealistic for one partner to dictate all of the needs in the relationship.

Conclusion

For relationships and feelings, the Three of Wands represents growth potential, commitment, and the future. You deserve to be in a relationship with someone who is fully committed to you. There is no card more enthusiastic about this than the Three of Wands. Plan to expand and it will be yours. 

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