Two of Pentacles as Feelings in Love & Relationships (Upright & Reversed)

The Two of Pentacles is the card of balance, adaptation, resourcefulness, and flexibility. This card features a man juggling two pentacles in the air while dancing. He is trying to keep his balancing act going. He could go on forever, as long as he balances everything well and keeps it all in harmony. 

The Two of Pentacles reminds us that balance and harmony are key aspects to a successful relationship. If we go to either extreme, things around us may crash and burn. That’s not to say that it is easy to juggle all of one’s responsibilities. The Two of Pentacles is a reminder that we have to prioritize. 

Upright Two of Pentacles as Feelings

If you are asking about how someone feels about you and you draw the Two of Pentacles, it means that this person is feeling like they have a lot going on right now. They are juggling many things. They may be feeling stressed about how much they have on their plate. They may not be paying as much attention to the relationship as they would like right now, but they are willing to adapt and to prioritize you. 

This person may also be feeling strained and feeling like they need help. Perhaps they need to be reminded that they can rely on you for help in difficult situations. They were not meant to juggle everything alone. 

For singles and those embarking on new relationships, the Two of Pentacles means that this person feels like they have a lot going on right now, but they are still willing to prioritize you and your relationship. They are adaptable and flexible in their approach to life. This person may need to lean on you for help at this busy time. This is a good opportunity for the two of you to see how you can deal with the stresses of life together. 

For existing relationships, the Two of Pentacles indicates that this person feels that they are doing a good job juggling all of their priorities. Despite that they have a lot going on, they still prioritize you and the relationship. They are willing to do what it takes to make sure that you have your needs met. They also feel like they can count on you to be flexible for them and that they can rely on you no matter what, in times of need. This is a great sign of a healthy relationship. 

If you are asking about an old flame or an ex’s feelings about you, the Two of Pentacles indicates that they feel like they are weighing the pros and cons of your relationship in their head. They have conflicted feelings toward you, but your previous relationship is still important to them. It influenced them in a lot of ways. Reconciliation is possible if they decide to make it their priority. 

In the context of whether or not a relationship is headed for commitment, engagement, or marriage, the Two of Pentacles is a great sign. Your partner is definitely thinking about it right now. They are weighing the pros and cons of it in their head right now. They feel that the two of you are balanced together, and they are willing to make it a priority. Now is a great time for you two to have the conversation about moving forward. 

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Reversed Two of Pentacles as Feelings

When the Two of Pentacles is reversed, it means that this person is feeling busy and completely overwhelmed right now. They feel very stressed, and they feel like there are so many things making demands on them right now. There is a lot going on in their personal life and at work.

They may also be unaware of how their actions are coming across to others right now. If you are feeling neglected, they may be completely unaware that you are feeling that way. They may not even realize that they are not prioritizing their relationship. 

For singles and those in new relationships, the Two of Pentacles reversed is a sign of feeling busy and overwhelmed. There is a lot on this person’s plate right now, and they may be unconsciously neglecting you and your relationship. This person feels out of balance. They may benefit from an open and honest conversation with you. Make them aware of how they are making you feel and they may change their approach. 

For those in committed relationships, the Two of Pentacles reversed is a sign of feeling out of sync with your relationship. Your partner has a lot going on right now, and they are trying to juggle it all. They are trying to please everyone around them, but this is not bringing harmony into their life. Rather, they are out of sync and unbalanced. It’s important for you to tell them how you feel, so that they can make the first step in rediscovering what their priorities are. 

If you are asking about an ex’s feelings about you, the Two of Pentacles reversed means that they are feeling too overwhelmed to think about it right now. The breakup was difficult on them, and that’s been very stressful for them. A lot of other things are adding to their stress, such as work, family, and friends. Reconciliation is not on their mind right now, and getting back together will only be possible once they’ve reprioritized.  

In the context of whether or not a relationship is headed for commitment, engagement, or marriage, the Two of Pentacles reversed means that they are too overwhelmed to think about it right now. It just isn’t a priority for them right now. If this does not work with you and your goals, you will need to reconsider if this relationship is still aligned with your needs. 

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Conclusion

For relationships and feelings, the Two of Pentacles represents balance and harmony. We all live busy lives, and we are all juggling many things at once. For our relationships to work, we need to give them the attention that they deserve. This card is a reminder to make the people we care about a priority. 

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