Two of Wands as Feelings in Love & Relationships (Upright & Reversed)

The Two of Wands is the card of planning, making decisions, leaving comfort, and taking risks. The card features a man standing on top of a castle and looking down at a miniature globe. This man has everything that he needs around him, but he still hungers for more. The globe in his hand represents new potential opportunities and experiences. 

The Two of Wands reminds us that when we want to make progress in life and relationships, we have to take that first step into the unknown. We don’t get what we want by just thinking about it and keeping it as an idea in our heads. The Universe helps those who help themselves. When you get out of your comfort zone, you will be rewarded. 

Upright Two of Wands as Feelings

If you are asking about how someone feels about you and you draw the Two of Wands, it means that this person is feeling excited to progress your relationship. They feel that you are a true partner to them. They feel that you can create something great together. 

They are in a planning mood, and they are ready to take action. They may be in the process of considering changes to make your relationship better, so that it meets both of your needs. This person is thoughtful and wise. 

For singles and those embarking on new relationships, the Two of Wands means that this person’s feelings towards you are very positive and commitment oriented. This person is a planner, and they want to do right by you. They are excited to see where your relationship can go, and they want to build your future together. They feel that the two of you can truly grow together. 

For existing relationships, the Two of Wands indicates that this person feels that they want to take your relationship to the next level. They feel that the relationship has been great so far, and it can be even better if you take the time to communicate with each other and meet each other’s needs at a deeper level. Now is the time to talk about your plans for the future. It will be received very well by them. 

If you are asking about an old flame or an ex’s feelings about you, the Two of Wands indicates that they are considering where you fit in their future. They still believe that there is potential there for the two of you, but they need time to figure out what that means for them. If you are looking for reconciliation, it is possible but you will need to be patient. 

In the context of whether or not a relationship is headed for commitment, engagement, or marriage, the Two of Wands is a great sign. Your partner is ready to talk about plans for the future. They want to approach it methodically. Now is a great time to have the conversation together. They are open to your input and ideas because they want to do this together. 

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Reversed Two of Wands as Feelings

When the Two of Wands is reversed, it means that this person is feeling hesitant about moving forward. Sometimes, regardless of the best laid plans, things don’t always fall into place. Love takes time, and right now is the time to be patient. This person feels like they need a clear path forward, but does not know how to ask for it. 

This person feels that the expectations around your relationship are unclear. This makes them feel stuck. They don’t know how to move forward right now. The best way to get things rolling is to talk about it with each other. 

For singles and those in new relationships, the Two of Wands reversed is a sign of feeling hesitant and unsure about commitment. Perhaps they are not at a point in their life where they feel like they have a vision for the future yet. It could be bad timing. They feel stuck around unsaid expectations. The best path forward is to have an honest conversation with them about the topic.  

For those in committed relationships, the Two of Wands reversed is a sign of feeling like your relationship needs to get back on the right track. Perhaps you have been taking each other for granted and have lost sight of the overall vision and goals of your relationship. This makes your partner more hesitant to commit and move the relationship forward to the next level. This is a sign to talk about your needs and see where you want to go.  

If you are asking about an ex’s feelings about you, the Two of Wands reversed means that they do not know what they want or how they feel. Although they might still have feelings for you, they do not have a clear idea of what they want. They may be scared of commitment and having their feelings hurt again. They are not in a good place right now to talk about reconciliation. If you are set on them, you need to be patient.  

In the context of whether or not a relationship is headed for commitment, engagement, or marriage, the Two of Wands reversed means that they are hesitant about a larger commitment. They feel pressured to plan, even though they do not feel ready. They feel like they need a clearer vision for what the future looks like. You need to figure out if you can get on the same page with them. In the end, both of your needs are important. 

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Conclusion

For relationships and feelings, the Two of Wands represents planning and moving forward to reach your goals. Love is not just about a feeling. Love is about our actions. We get what we put out. Set your intentions, work to make them happen, and you will find your wishes manifested.  

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