Two of Wands as Love Outcome (Upright & Reversed) Tarot Card Meaning

The Two of Wands is the card of planning, making decisions, leaving comfort, and taking risks. The card features a man standing on top of a castle and looking down at a miniature globe. This man has everything that he needs around him, but he still hungers for more. The globe in his hand represents new potential opportunities and experiences. 

The Two of Wands reminds us that when we want to make progress in life and relationships, we have to take that first step into the unknown. We don’t get what we want by just thinking about it and keeping it as an idea in our heads. The Universe helps those who help themselves. When you get out of your comfort zone, you will be rewarded. 

Upright Two of Wands as Love Outcome

If you are asking about what is the outcome of a relationship, and you draw the Two of Wands, that means that your person finds excitement in you. The Two of Wands is astrologically associated with Mars in Aries, which is an active go-getter energy. Either you energize your person or vice versa. Your person is very passionate about pursuing you. However, they’re not just pursuing you for the sake of pursuing you. The Two of Wands usually represents a person who knows what they want, and they have a plan. This is the card of the ‘visionary’ archetype. This person already has a clear vision of what they want their future with you to look like. 

The Two of Wands as love outcome is a sign of being both feeling-driven and methodical in a relationship. Your person feels quite positively about you, and they think that you would be a great partner for them. They already see all the possibilities in front of them. This person could already have plans to take you out to certain places, travel to their favorite spots, invite you to their regular haunts. They want to include you in their world and make sure you fit into their future nicely. They may have felt like you were the missing puzzle piece in their life.

If you are wondering about a potential relationship, the Two of Wands as love outcome means this relationship has started off on a good foot. The Two of Wands is a future-oriented card of action. This person is not interested in lingering in the background of your life, just existing on the sidelines. Your person is not the “go with the flow type.” This person is bold, and they want a clear position in your life.

If you are in a new relationship, the Two of Wands as love outcome means your person is excited for the future they have with you. They’re not coming into this relationship thinking that it’s not going to last. They have a vision for the future. This is not the ‘hookup’ or ‘one night stand’ card. With its astrological association with Mars and Aries, this person wants to move quickly. The advice with this card is to take your time, and make sure you’re on the same page as your person. They could have a very specific, particular future envisioned with you, but is it also what you want? Have a heart-to-heart conversation.

If you are in an existing relationship, the Two of Wands as love outcome means your person is ready to progress to the next level in your relationship. This could indicate a higher level of commitment, such as starting a family together. If you’re going through a major life change with your person, such as relocation, this is a very positive card to draw. Your person wants to accommodate you in that major life change, they want to make sure you’re okay too. Even if you’ve been in a relationship with this person for decades, they still feel like there’s so much to look forward to together. 

If you are currently in separation with each other, the Two of Wands as love outcome means your person is currently in “planning and taking action” mode. In the traditional depiction of the Two of Wands, the man in the card is holding a globe. If you two are separated by distance, your person is planning to take action to bring you closer to each other. If you are inquiring about an ex, your ex is thinking of you and likely considering how you’d fit into their future. Your person still believes there’s potential in your relationship, they’re just trying to figure out what that would mean in their life. Give your person time and space to think, if you’re hoping for a reconciliation.

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Reversed Two of Wands as Love Outcome

If you are asking about what is the outcome of a relationship, and you draw the Two of Wands reversed, that means that the energies of this card are extreme. On the one hand, your person could just be aimlessly dating with no clear intentions of committing. This person has no clear vision for their love life. Alternatively, they are unhealthily obsessed and just hellbent on ‘conquering’ you. They see you as a prize and, while you might be flattered at first, they will treat you like a literal possession. They may see you as a ‘trophy spouse’ that they can just take around as arm candy or a status symbol.

The Two of Wands reversed as love outcome is a sign of a lack of direction in a relationship. When this card is drawn in the reverse, your relationship may feel stagnant and pointless. This is not because your person is a “chill bohemian” or “they go with the flow”, but more likely because they don’t know what they want. This person may have had terrible role models and influences in childhood. Perhaps the examples of relationships that they grew up watching were unhealthy or even toxic. Your person could be a commitment phobe or they enjoy having multiple partners. It’s up to you to decide whether you’re willing to put up with this. Know your worth.

If you are wondering about a potential relationship, the Two of Wands reversed as love outcome means that your person might not have a clear idea of where they want this to go. Make sure you’re on the same page when you draw this card, especially if you’re looking for something serious. The Two of Wands when drawn in the reverse may indicate a lack of vision and planning. You may find your person to be too passive. You might end up feeling like you’re doing all the work. Because this person doesn’t know what the future they want with you looks like, the relationship may feel stagnant. It’s great to have a ‘carpe diem’ approach to life, but not if you feel like they’re just not making the effort.

If you are in a new relationship, the Two of Wands reversed as love outcome means the Mars in Aries has become extreme. You may find that your person was either too aggressive in pursuing you, or that they were too passive and you had to do all the work. Your person may enjoy the pursuit of chasing a desired partner, only for the passion to peter out as soon as they’ve ‘conquered’ you. The Two of Wands in reverse lacks foresight and planning. You may wonder where this relationship is going. Your person could have ‘claimed’ you for the sake of their ego, with no intentions of getting serious. If you feel like you’re doing all the work or being strung along, you need to express what you want and set some clear boundaries.

If you are in an existing relationship, the Two of Wands reversed as love outcome means stagnancy. Both of you could have a sense that you’re just coexisting aimlessly day after day. Your person could lack direction or vision, or you could simply not be on the same page. You need to reignite the passion and get your relationship back on track. If you feel like your person is taking you for granted or assuming that you’ll stick around despite not having your needs met, you need to have a serious talk with them.

If you are currently in separation with each other, the Two of Wands reversed as love outcome means your person lacks planning and clarity on their future with you. The Two of Wands in the upright is all about taking bold action and courage, in the reverse we get the opposite energy. If you’re separated by distance, your person could have cold feet or have fears about moving toward you. Maybe they just need some reassurance or someone to understand their anxieties. If you’re inquiring about an ex, your person may not have a clear idea of what they want, even if they still love you. They’re not really in a headspace to be thinking about reconciliation right now.

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Conclusion

For love readings, the Two of Wands represents planning and moving forward to reach your goals. Love is not just about a feeling. Love is about our actions. We get what we put out. Set your intentions, work to make them happen, and you will find your wishes manifested.  

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