Two of Swords as How Someone Sees You (Upright & Reversed) Tarot Card Meaning

The Two of Swords is the card of difficult choices, feeling stuck in the middle, stalemates, and denial. This card shows a blindfolded woman holding two crossed swords. The swords represent the two choices that she is deciding between. She is undecided and finding it difficult to choose. Her blindfold indicates that she is not seeing the situation clearly and may not know the whole truth. 

The Two of Swords reminds us that difficult decisions are a part of life. They are a part of romance as well. Sometimes, we are the ones who have to make a tough call. Other times, we are waiting anxiously for someone else to make a decision that will affect us. The Two of Swords reminds us that we should always make the decision that feels most authentic to us. 

Upright Two of Swords as How Someone Sees You

If you are asking about how someone sees you, and you draw the Two of Swords, that means this person sees you as an undecided part of their life. They are not sure what to do with you. They are stuck between decisions. They see you as a friend and a love interest. They are not sure if exposing their love would ruin the friendship if it didn’t work out. They see you as lacking clarity on where you want to go with them.

The Two of Swords means that they see you as a stalemate in their life. They cannot think clearly about what they want to do with you. They feel like they cannot win no matter what they choose. They see you as someone they love, so it is impossible to forget about you altogether and move on. They are stuck.

For singles and those embarking on new relationships, the Two of Swords is a sign that they see you as someone they are hesitant to start a relationship with. They see you as one of their primary interests, but they may have others. This could be detrimental to you, as being single deserves someone who is deceived and knows they want you.

For existing relationships, the Two of Swords means that they see you as someone that is swaying back and forth and drifting from commitment. They don’t know what to expect with you. They see you as an unstable partner. They are not sure what path to take in the relationship. The relationship is dysfunctional at this point, and clarity must be restored for you to continue your relationship.

If you are asking about an ex’s intentions, the Two of Swords shows that they see you as someone they cannot forget. Although they were lost in the relationship, they simply cannot get rid of you. You often think about you. Reconciliation is certainly a possibility, but plan on being direct with your feelings and planning the relationship accordingly so that it does not end how it did previously. 

In the context of whether or not a relationship is headed for commitment, engagement, or marriage, the Two of Swords means that they see you as someone they cannot yet commit to. They do not want to break up with you, but they cannot see themselves committing to something as large as marriage just yet. Over time, they may begin to see you as a spouse and long-term partner, but for now take it day by day.

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Reversed Two of Swords as How Someone Sees You

If you are asking about how someone sees you, and you draw the Two of Swords reversed, that means this person sees you as someone they subconsciously avoid. They have multiple choices to make. They do not have a clear mind about the decisions they need to make. They see you as an illusive force in their life. They are hiding from their relationship problems and waiting to see if they will go away.

The Two of Swords reversed means that they see you as someone that overwhelms them. There are a lot of moving parts in the relationship. They see you as someone they love but also despise. You give them analysis paralysis. They are scared of the idea of being with you, but still have interest that they do not know how to get rid of.

For singles and those embarking on new relationships, the Two of Swords reversed is a sign that they see you as someone that is distant from them. They cannot start a relationship with someone they feel far from. Your connection must be strengthened in order for the relationship to work. Otherwise, remaining single is the best option for you and your partner.

For existing relationships, the Two of Swords reversed means that they see you as someone they cannot make major decisions with. You cannot decide together on the important things in the relationship like where you want it to go. Your mutuals pressure you to make decisions, but this pressure further confuses you.

If you are asking about an ex’s intentions, the Two of Swords reversed shows that they see you as someone that did not clarify why the relationship ended. They see you as someone who left them hanging. They prefer to not think about the breakup as a way of coping with it. How they see you is not a great sign when it comes to getting back together. They do not want to do any decision-making.

In the context of whether or not a relationship is headed for commitment, engagement, or marriage, the Two of Swords reversed means that they see you as someone who is pressuring them. They do not want to consider marriage right now. Whenever they think of marriage, they become stressed. This makes them see you as a stressor in their life rather than a potential spouse.

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Conclusion

For relationships and feelings, the Two of Swords represents deciding between two difficult choices. Sometimes, we are the one who is deciding. Other times, we are the ones who are waiting for an answer. It’s a hard situation to be in, but ultimately, you have to make the call that feels most authentic to you. 

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